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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 01/19/2017 - 8:23am

So my BS9 has a pretty good relationship with my husband, they are buddies. My husband is a huge help with BS and really enjoys being a step dad. So they love to watch sports, talk sports, play ball ect... I am thankful because I used to have to do all this and despite working for a sporting goods manufactuer, I am not really into sports.

Last night the two of them have come up with a crazy plan. BS is researching how to set up his own utube channel and then the two of them are going to do their own Sport Chat talk show. They came up with a name for their show and BS will be putting together an outline & topic of what they are discussing. I am to film it.

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Submitted by Acratopotes on Thu, 01/19/2017 - 8:46am

this sounds like a blended family......

SO and Deigma gets along as well and when they are together it's very funny and relaxing....

Im wondering why is boys so easy and girls so difficult

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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 01/19/2017 - 8:52am

Some of the things that I think make our situation easier is BS grew up with me having a good relationship with his brothers so step parent to him is not a bad thing. My husband has no kids of his own and had one step dad that treated him like his own and one who was a complete a hole to him. He models his behavior after the good one. My husband treats BS the way he would his own child, he does things that parents do, not just because he loves me but because he loves BS too. I do not just allow my husband to give and get nothing in return, BS is respectful and because it is our house my husband has a say in how things work. There is nothing worse than being a step parent who is only good enough to do things but has no voice n their own home.

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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 01/19/2017 - 9:36am

I realize how fortunate I am to have a good partner with my husband. I am happy to say too that BS9 really likes his new SM at Dad's house too. She is very good to him ( she doesn't have kids either) . She is not home a lot when he is there but both she and her family are really good to him.

I am proud that BS doesn't act like an entitles a hole and is disrespectful to his step parents.