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Something happened last night.

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Last night I was cleaning out my clothes closet and found a old journal from almost 10 years ago. I thought I had thrown out all of my old journals but there it was. So I sat down on the bed and started reading. Within 5 minutes I started crying. Everything I wrote about was when I met my now husband. My fears about his children. His family being so judgemental. My concerns about getting to involved with this man. I wrote about our date we had and how great it was. (something I had forgot about).

OT Lets think Spring!

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It is 61 degrees today and feels like a spring day outside. YEAH! I know winter is not over but it feels like a tease today. Are you looking forward to Spring? Do you spring clean the house and open the windows? ( we did this every year when I was a child). Do you enjoy yard work when the weather warms up? I can't wait to hear the birds singing outside. Any thoughts today.

OT Childhood Home

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Yesterday I went to go visit my friends parents. It was like going to a blast from the past. This is the same home my friend grew up in. I told my friend she was so lucky to still have her childhood home. Not sure she really gets it. She has been able to live there and visit thru out her whole life. When I got home I started thinking about how much I would love to just walk thru the home I grew up in. See my old bedroom. The basement where I did things I should not have done. }:) It would mean so much to me. Do your parents still live in your childhood home?

OT/ Do you feel that things are changing for woman?

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For weeks now everyday more and more woman are coming out with their stories about sexual harassment. It is shocking to me how many men got away with this for so long. Woman lost jobs for speaking out against them. Woman lost their self esteem while holding on to jobs they needed. My hope is that this is a real turning point for woman. What do you think? Am I being to optimistic.

Update on my Ex that is trying to quit smoking.

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Well he is doing great and seems to be back to his normal self. Thankfully. I did encourage him to stick with it and so far he is doing great. But here is the problem. He now wants his new wife to try to quit and she is not having it. That is his problem not mine. But she is telling our friends that if my husband and I didn't encourage him to quit he wouldn't want her to quit. All we did was support him when he said he wanted to do this. We didn't make him stop smoking. She has been posting things on Facebook about how mad she is at me and my husband that we supported him.

My Ex Husband is trying to quit smoking and has turned into a real jerk!

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Long story short my husband and I have a great relationship with my ex husband. We are all friends and it is really great for my kids that we are. But since my ex husband is trying to quit smoking he is like a different person. He is miserable all the time and my kids don't want to see him. His new wife is a heavy smoker so I think that is not helping. I tried to talk with him about how awful he is being to everyone but he doesn't see it. Has anyone broke the habit? Any advise would help.

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