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Now CPS is investigating BM's dad (stepdad but raised her since a baby) because when SD was being interviewed about why she felt unsafe, she said one time he touched her butt when hugging her. Again, she backtracked when being admitted, saying she wanted to go home, didn't feel unsafe, and wanted her phone.
They didn't have room at the local hospital so they are sending her 3 hours south for a 3-5 day eval. She is backtracking, saying she's fine, and is in disbelief she's being treated like she's suicidal with zero contact with the outside world and can't go to her friend's party this weekend.
DH came home last night and said that BM is waiting at the hospital for SD's evaluation as they wouldn't let her take her home from school. Apparently SD told the school counselor she doesn't feel safe at BM's and that she is suicidal.
I know I'm hated here (I am Charlie) but I have nowhere else to get advice or vent. Our daughter is 1 now and our lives have been great since we moved. We got SD a ticket to come up next month for spring break for 9 days but now BM asked if SD can live with us.
We have decided to not go back home for the family party and just fly SD up for her 2 week break. Nobody is giving DH an answer on the dates that work for them, and the weekend the break starts is BM's birthday (I don't give a damn) but am sure she'll cry about it so I told DH he needs to figure out times that work for them. I also think BM is mad that SD will have to fly alone both ways as she's never done it before.
DH wants SD to come up for fall break the first week of October but hasn't said anything about taking time off. I'm the one who is at home most and I'm not using PTO when she's here. So if my calculations are correct, she'll basically sit in the basement most of the week.
Friday was SD's bday and guess who had to call DH? Yep, BM. We provide SD with a cell phone but BM called DH to "reminisce" or some shit. DH missed her call and texted that he'd call her back.
She replied with something like "just wanted to thank you for giving me SD and yada yada 'we'll' call you after school". She never called back and DH talked to SD but wth?
Not sure if anyone cares but I needed a little vent. I have been in Utah for one month now and DH for 2 weeks. My job is so much better than my last and DH starts a sales job on Monday. My mom stresses me out a little bit but she loves the baby and is so helpful.
I interviewed and shadowed this morning and got the offer less than 2 hours after leaving! This job is in UT where my mom lives and where we want to move. It pays $6.50 more than my hospital was offering me for FT and I can't feel more blessed! However..
It's tonight and yep, I got out of it! No seeing fake BM or her fake mother. The baby will still go, however, but she doesn't know this difference and I can't imagine it's longer than an hour.
It's next Thursday at 7. I get off at 6.. I know DH will go and get mad if I tell him I'm not going. I don't want the baby going either. I'm sure SD would only be disappointed of my absense just because I'm expected to be with DH as a formality.
There are only 3, yes THREE, other students and DH would sit with GBM and GBF (and that includes BM and her boyfriend). I absolutely do not want to be anywhere near any of them. What do I do?