DH and I picked out a crib, dresser, end table, and diaper changing rack that tops the dresser for the baby on our registry from Buybuy Baby. The crib converts into a toddler bed then a twin or full so our daughter will have it for at least 7-8 years, probably 10 until she needs a queen. If we didn't get it for the shower, we were going to buy it ourselves because we really like the design. It's painted gray with a pretty wood grain.

I must be a glutton for punishment because I can't seem to disengage. I want a positive relationship with SD and assured her today that I don't want her to feel replaced by the baby in January. I got paid today and we both need haircuts (I have been the one getting her hair done for a couple of years because we had a good hairdresser but she moved recently). I also had to get some things from Wal-Mart so I let SD pick out some dog toys and nail polish.

Sorry for being a blog hog but I am so frustrated with steplife I want to explode today. As I posted before, SD is failing math (with an 18%) and is refusing to do work in class so DH got extra homework from the teacher- as punishment. She is at least 2 weeks behind because of the trip to Ireland and always needs help with her homework but never wants to put in any effort because she doesn't understand.

SD doesn't have many responsibilties in our home. In fact, she's only been responsible for her space and is occasionally asked to help set the table or replace the trash bag. Even her basic chores for her own things get whined at.