BM's obsesssion with my DH has been obvious for some time.  She hates my DH and actively tries to sabotage his relationship with both SDs.  But in a weird twisted way, she also loves my DH and wants his attention. If you read my last blog, you saw that DH was going to let SD13 live with BM after the CPS allegations.  However, BM was also investigated and her house was deemed unlivable.  This is the second house that she has been kicked out of.  As a result, she lost her kids.  My SD13 came back to live with us.  SD16 went to live with an aunt.

My last blog was about BM and SD16 calling CPS on me and DH, claiming that we starved and abused SD16.  CPS came out to our house and interviewed my Bios and DH.  They told DH that they would not be investigating because neither child was here so they can't investigate.  However, if BM reports us again when SD13 is here, they will have to investigate the claims.  Of course, they also told BM this, so I guarantee they will be knocking on our door again in a few weeks.  The only thing I don't understand is that the CPS worker gave us a copy of the allegations.  All of the allegations are abou

The last few days at our house have been overwhelming. My SD12 just came back from visiting BM on Friday.  She was at BM's house for two weeks.  Before she went, she was doing well.  Her grades were better than ever and she seemed happy.  

I am so furious with BM right now.  I really wish I could tell her exactly how I feel about her.   I have spent the last few days, comforting SD12 because of her mother's lies.  I knew this was coming, but I had hoped she wouldn't pull it again.  SD12 was supposed to spend Thanksgiving break with BM.  My DH wrote to BM about a month and a half ago about the holidays, informing her that we can't do any travelling this year because I am in my third trimester.