When does it stop?
My last blog was about BM and SD16 calling CPS on me and DH, claiming that we starved and abused SD16. CPS came out to our house and interviewed my Bios and DH. They told DH that they would not be investigating because neither child was here so they can't investigate. However, if BM reports us again when SD13 is here, they will have to investigate the claims. Of course, they also told BM this, so I guarantee they will be knocking on our door again in a few weeks. The only thing I don't understand is that the CPS worker gave us a copy of the allegations. All of the allegations are about SD16. In fact, it states that when the police in BM's home state spoke to SD13, she told them that her dad was not abusing her. So if they have to be able to speak to the abused child, how can they continue to investigate this? It makes no sense. This is only the 4th time that BM has accused my DH of abuse. He even showed CPS our court papers where the judge talks about BM's false allegations against DH in the past and against the school. It just gets so old.
Then to make matters worse, DH sent BM an email informing her that he is picking up SD13 because she is getting ready to start school. This caused BM to amp up the crazy. She has been texting and messaging people on FB about DH and me, claiming we abuse our children. She can't see either of our FB pages. Neither can SD16 or SD13. BM has resorted to messaging members of my family and friends of DH's that she knows from their past together. On top of that, she filed a police report in her hometown, alleging my dad and my BIL are driving by her house and sneaking in her yard to take inappropriate pictures of her family. WTH? My dad doesn't even know where BM lives, nor would he waste his time spying on her. The reason for this is simple. DH was contacted by CPS in BM's home state. She had CPS called on her by someone, alleging that her house is filthy again and that there are many people living in her house (more than 12 people in a 3 bedroom single wide). BM thinks my family must have reported her and this is her way of trying to discredit them. The problem is my family had nothing to do with it. Luckily, the people she has messages have sent me and DH screenshots of the conversations.
Unfortunately, it seems like no one can do anything to stop this. It is legal harassment and I am so tired of it. When does it end? Oh, wait, I have answer. BM sent my DH a cryptic email two days ago. It said, "If you want this to stop, you know how to stop it." She means that my DH lets SD13 go back to live with her. She has been having SD13 call and beg DH to live with her. Of course, my DH is not open to that possibility. But, I am really starting to get tired of all the drama. I don't know how much more I can take.