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Another low for SS, DH's head in the sand

I gave DH two birthday celebrations. One was yesterday since that was his actual birthday. I made his favorite dinner and his favorite cake.

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SS is so gross

SS13 is so gross, but we can't do anything about it. All I can do is ignore it and be cordial to him. He's got so many issues. One, is that he thinks of the world as his toilet.

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Tired and Ranting

This is just a long rant. Sorry.

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BM stopped helping out financially long ago.

Just ranting as I process this. I just found out last night that BM has stopped making payments to DH for skid expenses for a long time.

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Good kid, really?

I'm sick and tired of hearing DH tell me about how he wishes I loved his kids as much as he does and how he doesn't understand my negative feelings towards SS because SS is a "good kid".

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Skids and No School

Just looking for some opinions from others. We have the skids next week and they don't have school for three out of the five days.

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Frustrated at DH and SD

SD16 is generally a good kid - loving, good grades, nice to be around when she's not hormonal, but she is so effing lazy by my standards.

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Why DH...why?

Really DH? Why would you ask SS how he would feel if we had another kid? It was a hypothetical joking question, but SS does not like DS, so really all you accomplished was pissing me off.

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Making it official

I've been with DH for over 5 years. I refer to him as DH here and in real life when I'm introducing him to others that don't know us. I call SS and SD my stepkids on those occasions too.

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Skids at Birthday Party Issue

My friend is having a birthday party for her two year old. I just told DH about the party and he asked if we had the kids that weekend and I said yes.