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BM is a jerk!!!

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I hope everyone had a good Christmas! So I blogged awhile back about my DH contacting BM to remind her that he will be picking up the skids on December 28th at noon. He texted her last night and said "Just wanted to remind you that I am picking up the boys on December 28th at noon". Then BM texts back "LOL ok good luck with that could you be any more dramatic". I am just trying to figure out what the hell that means. The CO says that a competent adult has to be there for pick ups and drop off. I guess she just is trying to get under my DH's skin but who knows.

Wandering about BM and Skids just coming over to your house unnannounced.....

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So BM made a big deal a couple of weeks ago when she texted my DH at 6 am in the morning asking him if he had the skids last weekend and he replied back to her and at 9 am and told her to please text him at appropriate non-emergency times if it's not an emergency well she blew up and told him that he wasn't getting the skids until 6 pm because she was letting them go about 10 minutes early before when DH was picking them up. SHE was the one letting the skids go early so I don't see how that is DH's fault. So last night she lets them go at 5:50 again.

DH's visitation weekend

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So BM texts last night letting DH know that OSS will be going to Dallas on the weekend of May 18th and 19th which is DH's weekend. She cannot dictate whether or not OSS can go since it is DH's visitation weekend? Won't that make her in contempt? If DH says it's ok then that is another story???

How should DH communicate with BM....

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So CO states that DH has to pick up the skids at noon on 12/28 odd-numbered years however, he wants to communicate with BM as least as possible. BM leaves the skids home alone all the time which is her business however, it says that there has to be an adult at pick ups and drop offs. To avoid conflict DH thought about just sending BM a screen shot of the CO showing the pick up time that he has to get the skids instead of talking to BM and telling her. He said from now on he is going to ignore her unless it's an emergency.

BM being vindictive....

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So OSS had a band concert last night that started at 7:00 pm so we were on our way there at around 6:30 pm then all of the sudden BM calls and says that OSS is sick and will be not going to the concert. DH says well you could've told me earlier she said that she was busy. So to me that means that she knew for awhile OSS was not feeling well so she could've told DH right when he got sick. But whatever it's only OUR time and gas you know so BM could care less.

OSS...a teenager

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OSS is hungry all the time which I know is normal for teenagers...however, when you are just reaching in people's food bags without asking and opening up people's food and don't ask then that's a problem. Why am I surprised though BM doesn't know what a boundary is so why would the skids? It is DH's fault as well....

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