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Strange FB friend request

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This morning I wake up to find a very unexpected friend request on FB.....BM’s father!!

Now I have BM and her SO blocked.  I only have YSS as a friend on my social media and I block a lot of what he can see.   Mainly because anytime we post about an activity, trip or fun time...BM would either blast DH or have MSS blast him for daring to have fun without the spawn.   Since they have been blocked there have been no more issues.

So why would an 80 something year old man (who has never been anything but silently rude to me) send me a Friend request at 4 am????

Skids and Pet Peeves

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Do you have any pet peeves the SKids do that drive you up a wall.   Not that they are doing it intentionally but just their habits and actions make you cringe??

My YSS does something that makes my skin crawl.  I have to fight the urge to scream at the top of my lungs for him to STOP!!  

He slurps and smacks his mouth every time he eats.  Doesn’t matter what it is he is eating...he does it EVERY time.

Should have known too good to last

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My DH has be fuming right now.  And of course it involves lack of communication where YSS is concerned.   This man can go into pain staking details about crap I have zero interest in but when it comes to giving me a heads up about changes in the visitation schedule, I am the last to know.  And he swears EVERY time that he has told me, when he hasn’t.

As it should be!

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Just so happens my DH had to go out of town for work the exact days we would have YSS.   At no time was it mentioned or considered that I would be taking YSS in DHs absence.   I will admit I am slightly giddy with joy at the prospect of having three days to myself and no YSS.   Despite the fact I like YSS (like not love) I am thrilled with the few days of solitude.  

Im sure BM is using this as an excused to totally trash me to the SS’s.   Don’t care....the fact that my existence alone can cause BM so much angst is revenge enough for me.

 

 

Miserable BMs created misery

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My SSs BM must be the most miserable person on earth.  She wants nothing more than to be nasty and PA.   Last week she got snarky with DH for missing a jr high football game.  DH was helping our dear friends whose child had just been severely injured and needed immediate modifications to their home so the child could get in the house.  She blasted DH for missing a game when DH had explained why he would be fine to YSS.  Since BM has zero friends, she wouldn’t understand what it means to help someone in need.

MSS The Golden child

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Sadly I have had the unlucky experience of being near BMs home a few times over the past few weeks.    Not something I enjoy at all.   But in the process I have noticed an old (very old) pick up truck parked toward the back of their property.  At first I thought it was a relatives truck who was visiting.  However it has been in the same spot for weeks now.  I think I have it figured out.  I bet money it is a truck for MSS17 for when he gets his drivers license.   

Oh DH you are out of your mind!

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DH just called and is clearly having a crappy day.   He is all worked up over a text from BM.   She send him a message about YSSs football meeting which is tomorrow.  I knew about the meeting but didn’t say anything to DH because I am disengaged.  Not my kid.   So BM sends him a text about the meeting.  It starts at 6 but he doesn’t get off work until 6 and the meeting is 30 minutes from his job.   He is upset that she didn’t tell him sooner...SMH!!  Then he has the brilliant idea that just to get back at her he will have me go to the football meeting and sit until he gets there!  

Awwwww Peace and Quiet

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Ok Gang....admit it.  There is no better feeling in the world than when your skid walks out the door to go to BMs.  It’s like a huge boulder gets lifted off my chest and the sun shines.  I swear I hear birds singing in the background!  

Even though I like my YSS...there is still no better feeling than those seconds after he leaves!  

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