Ok Gang....admit it. There is no better feeling in the world than when your skid walks out the door to go to BMs. It’s like a huge boulder gets lifted off my chest and the sun shines. I swear I hear birds singing in the background!
Even though I like my YSS...there is still no better feeling than those seconds after he leaves!
Backstory....DH has three sons. OSS22 and MSS17 are PASd by BM. No contact from OSS in over two years. No known reason as he won’t respond to DH. There was no contact other than snarky mean text messages from MSS for over a year until recently.
Im sitting here at my work desk (I work from home). It has been an extremely stressful work week and the following week will be even worse.
I won’t lie...my life and marriage have been 100 times better since my OSS21 and MSS16 have been PAS’d out by BM. It’s amazing how much different our house feels now. However, with all good things comes a price.
For the most part municipal DH has gone through the phases of grief over losing his older
Most if the newbys would have no idea about the Anne saga....but it was riveting! Oh how I miss The life of Anne and Mr Handsome!!!
BM has PASd oss21 and mss17 to the point they hate DH. DH has done nothing wrong but BM has bashed him repeatedly to the point they make up Imaginary offenses and refuse contact. It started slowly at first with the “you never take us to do fun things” crap as well as “you never buy us...(insert the demand of the moment) DH works weekend and BM uses that as a nail to drive through his heart with the SSs. Every missed ballgame, BM was bashing DH to the SSs. Every time he worked late they were rude and nasty to DH. You get the point.
For background info...my DH has three sons. The older two are majority PAS’d out. They will have nothing to do with him. They are rude nasty entitled jerks who treated him like an atm. And DH allows it. He kissed their butt, allowed them to rule the roost until they finally lost every ounce of respect for him because he has zero backbone. Honestly we lucked out when they stopped coming over.
DH mentioned yesterday that he went to peek at BMs Facebook to see if MSS went to some school dance or whatever and found out she had blocked him. SO out of curiosity I looked and see that I have not been blocked. And yes MSS did to to the dance. (MSS has been PASd for over a year now so we have zero contact).
In my search I see another post made by BMs spouse and it had all the SSs tagged. It was an article about how it is more important now than ever for parents to attend EVERY sporting event their child has.
i haven’t posted much lately, mainly because things in step hell have been pretty quiet. Still no contact from OSS or MSS. But I’m not too upset by that.
YSS still comes 50% of the week so DH is happy about that.
This happens to be a kid weekend for us. Not a big deal. YSS is a decent kid who normally keeps to himself and DH is off work this weekend, which is rare. DH and I have been off work together this week. Well last night YSS asked to have a friend stay. No problem again. The kid staying is polite and quiet and never a problem.