So lately whenever Ss has been getting in trouble at school Bm has been calling and having Dh scold Ss over the phone, Dh didn't mind and neither did I because we just wanted to try to nip his behavior issues at school in the bud. Anyway a few weeks ago Dh took everything from Ss because of his behavior and it seemed to work but then he started acting up again. Ss's school runs off a color chart for behavior, red is the worst color you can get and Ss hadn't gotten this before. Well Tuesday he got red and right away Bm texts Dh that he needs to call his son because he got red.

So DH knows that I blog/frequent this site and usually he's on the fence about how he feels about the site but sometimes he'll get frustrated with something bm/ss related and will ask me to reach out and ask what you guys think, usually I don't follow thru but thought I would on this...

So every year Bm has Xmas eve and Dh gets Xmas morning. This is simply because that is what Bm demanded every year and Dh played along so by the time I came on the scene this was an established thing. I never really thought much of it and just went with the flow because I was never really an xmas person but now that I'm about to have my DD now I'm curious how this this will pan out. Every year Bm tries to keep Ss into late morning so she can basically have him xmas eve and also get a xmas morning too, so I'm wondering how this will play out when Dd gets older.

I have a question for those of you that have bio's and/or skids full time. A few posts ago (10/4/13) I vented about being worried about Ss bm sending Ss5 over to our house sick. Welllll, it's been almost 2 months and Ss is still sick. Not deathly ill or anything but still has a lingering cough/sniffles. When Ss comes over we'll give him cough medicine and I'll rub him down with vicks and he seems to be getting better by the time sunday comes but then when we get him on friday the following week (we have him every fri-sun) it's like the cough/sniffles are worse again.