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Camping catastrophe

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So the egg donor and her family decided to take SS5 out of town on a camping trip. Mind you, they don;t camp, they just watch tv in the woods. To each their own I guess. Anyhoodle...

This is the third time he has seen her this year. Each time for less than 24 hours, this was no exception. She drove him to camping, the left the very next morning, leaving him with her parents.

Broken today..sorry, kinda long.

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I've been planning a nature walk with the kids and DH for over a week now. It kept getting pushed back as DH had other obligations that would pop up. That's understandable, adult stuff happens. But it kept making me the bad guy, since I was the one that had to keep telling the kids "sorry guys, not today". We finally went yesterday. Today, I'm emotionally broken.

What is it that you never expected?

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Today SS5 decided to jump on LB10 and play "stop hitting yourself". Well the first strike was so loud I heard it from inside the house (windows open, kids playing in the back yard about 15 feet away). I've seen DH play this "game" with SS5. I didn't think anything of it. My dad played it with me when I was a kid. I've played it with my daughter. I guess I just assumed that he would know not to ACTUALLY HIT someone. Boy was I wrong. It got me thinking though, there are a lot of things I never really thought I would have to deal with before having a SK.

This is me blog hogging.

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Sorry for the blog hogging, but everyone is always so helpful. So here's an issue that has been gettign under my skin for a long time. I've been trying to positively correct the issue, but had no success.

I swear SS5 is a compulsive liar. I would say 90% of the things that come out of his mouth are lies. Not stories, like most kids tell, just blatant lies. Example;

SS5 wanted to play with the laser pointer I have for the cats. He was watching the floor and repeatedly pressing the button, so I figured maybe it wasn't working.

It never ends. Anyone else living with their skid(s)?

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Finally got SS5 feeling up to par after coming home sick from Gran's. Of course the first thing he wants to do is play with DD8 and my ten year old little brother (man that's a pain to type out - I'm lazy- let's say LB from now on). Playing board games, he starts losing so he decides to tip the board. Time out for that. Sat and explained that if you don;t play nice and by the rules, people wont want to play with you. An hour later, it was trampoline time...

The saga continues.

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Thank you to everyone for the support and advice on the "I'm going to stab you" incident. After some great advice (from all of you in this wonderful support group) I did step back and attempt to look at the situation objectively. I went into SS5's room and very sternly told him that we do NOT say things like that. We do NOT act on those words. He, of course, retorted with "they weren't playing fair/ I wanted the red one/ I don;t know how to take turns" yada yada on and on.

Not sure how to react to this one. Need advice...

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My ten year old brother is visiting for the summer. I thought this was going to be a really good experience for DD8 and SS5, having another child to play with. DD8 has been extremely happy to have her uncle around, but SS5 has very quickly fallen into bad habits and rude behavior (see previous blog post) that we haven't had to deal with in a long time.

Still living on repeat, a rant.

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I took a 5 hour trip across the state on Tuesday, leaving DD8 and SS5 with DH for 24 hours straight. This was obviously not the best idea I've ever had. Came back to a messy house and SS5 on a roll. It seems like DH just doesn't notice this stuff until it's so out of control that it can;t be ignored. A bit of backstory;

Not sure how to react

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SS5 has picked up a new habit that seems to be getting worse and I'm just not sure how to react appropriately. The new habit? Waiting until he thinks I'm not looking then breaking a rule to see if he can get away with it. I recognize that it's attention seeking behavior, and I should ignore it, but I also don't want to give the idea that he can break the rule as long as he thinks I can't see him breaking it. I love SS5 but it seems like every time he comes back from Gran's or BM's he seems to come back with this attitude of "I'm going to to whatever I want".

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