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O/T - castor oil question and TMI

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Has anyone used castor oil to jump start pregnancy? Did it work? I'm not worried about getting diarrhea, I've had that for the past few days. I do have this image in my head that I will push and shit splatter the doctor though.

I'm 39 weeks and 1 day and not much is happening. I was told if I get medically induced it hurts more.

My Easter FUN

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a lot has happened over Easter Weekend. BM decided to drop SS12 off at DH fathers house for Easter. We didn't make the 5 hour trip up there since she was refusing to answers us on what the plans were. Normally we travel up to that area for holidays, but i'm a week away from due date and we only wanted to travel of DH was going to get parenting time.

Ugh

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Well Bm never dropped ss12 off for Easter vacation and not responding to calls/texts. She keeps telling us her lawyer said she didn't have to. She is so delusional, I could pay a lawyer to say whatever I want as well.

Oh well, the only thing keeping me sane is that we only have 6 years to go until the CS ends and she will have a horrible life.

Haven't posted in awhile.

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A whole bunch of "fun" stuff has been happening here. SIL is a social worker where ss lives. We mentioned the doggie shaming vidoe to her (see other posts). since she is a mandated reporter, she reported it to her supervisor. Another case worker interviewed ss, Bm, and dh. I guess we are building a case of parental alienation and manipulation.

I dislike ss12

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I don't know the exact reason but I dislike ss12..

Not sure if it's because dh ignore me on weekends he is here. If it's because ss disrupts our routines on weekends. If it's because all his actions are excused for having a shitty mother. If it's because ss will not speak to me unless I ask him something twice.

I'm am not 100% sure. After reading other peoples stories on here, ss12 is not a horrible kid, but I just don't like him. I was a step child as well so I should know what he is going through.

Annoyed with DH and SS12

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Today was "cleaning" day and dh knew about this for the past few days. Last weekend we traveled for my baby shower and this past week I have been putting in long hours at work, since It was my last week before maternity leave. The house is a mess and I wanted it cleaned. Right as we are starting to clean dh tells ss12 to start his homework and dh wants to check it.

Off topic - just venting.

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So my other off topic blog was issues I have with my mother, yes I have mommy issues. So my mother and sister are at my house helping me bake for my baby shower this weekend. Mother has been calling me fat the entire day! Every time I ate something she would comment on it. I had a rough pregnancy with putting on weight in the beginning.

Just venting....

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I'm just so annoyed with ss12 this weekend. Lying to dh that he was going to answer his phone call last weekend and he never did. Ss12 gave a lame excuse that made no sense. Dh started to cry during this confrontation/conversation. My husband is usually a rock and never cries.

So I have been super pissy with ss12. Today we did chores, had no time for fun stuff.

Ss12 lying.

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Ss12 got a life lesson last night.

Again, my dh wasn't able to reach him by phone last week. Bm doggie shamed him, see last blog. It's been going on for over a year. Dh sat ss down last night and asked what his excuse was for not talking on the phone.

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