For those new here my DH has primary. We have SS Monday through Friday during the school year then flip to a 50:50 schedule during the Summer months. It’s been this way since SS was 2 and he’s turning 8 this Summer. Before that DH and BM exchanged SS every four days (50:50). She didn’t want to share the kid so DH took her to court. She wanted him on EOWE and child support instead she got weekends and there is no child support. 

Bright and early she emailed (high conflict so email only for years) asking DH to reconsider going back to 50:50 but week on, week off. 

I am typically not the jealous type. I remember BM accusing me of wanting her life so much in the beginning and I laughed at her because I really didn't want anything she had. Well rewind back a few months ago when me and DH were looking in this nice upper scale subdivision for a bigger house. We didn't need it, but I wanted a fourth bedroom for a playroom and an office space and DH wanted a enclosed garage for his car. I tagged DH on the house listing on FB and shared the picture to my facebook (the devil) a few times because the previous owner is a coworker of mine.

I don't know if anyone else has watched this series or not, I have posted about it before, but just in case-they just uploaded the second seaon to Bonus Family. I felt that it was pretty accurate if not a mild form of what most of us deal with so if you can live with subtitles, its a great watch.

Two weeks ago: SS7 tells BM (because she lets him think he is her equal and has the authority to tell her no) that he’s not going with her for her weekend. BM blames DH. She rages on the phone with him later and tells him that the only way he will get any of “her” time is when a judge tells her she has to....

Last week: Bm is telling her other kids stepmom not to bring Spawn around us or my BS even though we see them and they play together when he’s with BM there at least once a week at tball practice for SS7.