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For anyone who has been following my days past events.

BM called back, BF asked her if she knew about the knife incident. He told her what the girls said and that 14 yo. threatened them into not telling.

BM proceeds to go nuts. (I was right, her 1st reaction was pissed that the girls told us and not her.) She then goes off on the defensive, "are you telling me I'm a bad Mother. It's because you left us. you are trying to take the girls away from me, I'll never let you see the girls, ect...."

OMG. OMG.

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OH My God. Oh my dear God.
You may aready know I was concerned last night when I found out that 3 girls not 1 where coming over. Well the 3 of them come bouncing in this house like there is a parade. I asked the 16 year old, what's going on, why are your sisiters here too? Don't you have school tomorrow?. She explains nothing's wrong. School will most likely be cancelled again because of the snow and my sister's wanted to come here.

Somethings up.

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BF just called me to say he is picking up the girls. With an S.
We are just suppose to have just the 16 yr. old tonight because tomorrow we are going to check out the Job corp program with her.

BF said 'Darkness' called and said 3 girls are coming. Don't they have school tomorrow?? While I was on the phone with him, BM was beeping in. I called him back to find out what she said. He told me she was asking HIM what is going on. This makes no sence. BF sounded upset. He just kept saying, I don't know what's going on.

New concern with 9 yr old SD

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Some of you know my brief story. I've been with BF for alittle over a year. He has 4 girls and I have 1.

The youngest, 9 , has been visiting with us very regularly since day one. Now we are at just about every weekend. SD was very stand off-ish in the begining, but is now at a point she will snuggle with me, let me kiss her goodnight and seems to enjoy being with us. Recently even told BM she wants to live here.

My hissy fit had impact!!

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Some of you may remember, recently while me & BF were watching 'Ghost', the BM called in need of attention and he was on the phone with her for an hour! I was so pissed. I slept on the couch. (I've never done that before )

The next morning, I was still upset and crying over it. I spilled my feelings out - but good.

I swear we need to write a book, what chapter ya want to do?

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In the week I have been on this site, I get more & more amazed.

The book would be for the bad BM's.

I'll take the chapter on

"Stop using your own kids" - This isn't a chess game!

Here's some other chapter ideas.

"It's not your wallet anymore" - Keep your sticky fingers off!

"Be happy I care about your kids" - Stop treating me like I introduced them to crack!

"Yeah, He's happy now" - Get over it!

"Accepting the food chain" - You got a new place!

Now I'm sad.

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I've been reading blogs about gaining custody. Is it that lengthy, messy, expensive, exshusting and to gain maybe not helping these kids. What is better?

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