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BF told me last night that the Brother was molested when he was a little boy. BF said he needs alittle time to get ready for this to come back out. We talk abit about it last night. I understand BF's concern about how to handle this. So much time has pasted. The Brother has since had a heart attack. DK has tried to kill herself. SD14 & SD16 have expressed suicide as a answer to their problems. This could very well lead to absolute disaster if not handled correctly. I understand why BF can't do this with 'guns blazing'.

Heart Shattering

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With all this abuse talk, BF blurtted out that SD14 was sexually molested when she was six by DK's Brother.

Bf has told me that Dk was molested as a kid by her Brothers. She was raped at knife point at 16, and that DK said all 3 extra marital affairs were rape. I never gave much thought.

From what BF said, the adults dealt with it. DK's Father beat the living balls out of his own son when he found out he hurt his GrandDaughter. And that was it. They never addressed it to the girl. They just brushed it under the rug.

I can't stop crying. This makes so much sence.

I learned so much & I'm done

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I think I aged ten years in the last 3 days. it is impossible to make any headway with this nut job.
I now completely understand why BF shut down and gave up. She is relentless. She can rationalize anything. You can't say one thing to her that doesn't get twisted around. She truley believes she deserves praise, credit and sympathy for the way she handles the girls.

Shit's gonna hit the fan in about an hour

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DK's brother told her there is a letter from me with the child support. She is on her way home now from her BF's. She called my BF earlier questioning why there is a letter from me and why I'm accusing her of being a bad Mother. Which maybe I did indirectly. BF explained I came home to the same letter. I lamb blasted both of them.

BF must be nervious, because he has not stopped talking since he got home from work. I've listened to him go on about fish oil pills and their benefit and about how they make imitation crabmeat.

Now we have a show

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I love it. BF read the letters I wrote. Basically, that nothing has changed in the past year. DK (Darkness) manipulates him and the girls and he keeps taking it. He COMPLETELY agreed with me!
He told me he wished I did send the one letter to her. EXCUSE ME, Did I just get the green light.

I polish the letter, made sure no heavy accustations are in there. The letter's tone was extremely firm and sighting both their problems. (It was a good old fashion ass reeming)

I'm spitting nails

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We haven't seen sd14 since x-mas, sd9 & 12 since they told me about the knife thing (Mid-Feb) and sd16 since the begining of March. I have been pushing BF to find out what's going on and that we need some kind of visitation schedule. BF told me the other day 'it's sounds like couple of the girls will be coming out this weekend'.

So last night I ask him what is going on. If they are coming, I would like to know so I can plan a dinner and get some Easter Baskets.

I'm feeling blue

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My baby will be gone for 2 weeks. Sad
My brother invited my Daughter to go on their vacation to Florida, then hop a cruise to the Bahamas. They left this morning for the two day drive down. We have never been apart for more than 2 days before this.
I feel so childless. We haven't seen any of the skids in over a month. Now mine is gone for two weeks. And in different states.
We have NEVER been this far apart. I don't like the way I feel.

Good Afternoon

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First off, I want to thank EVERYONE that weighed in on this one. I realize that is it a very touchy subject. I appreciate the honesty you all set forth.

2nd. I am amazed at the manipulation we all face. Whether it is the BM, the skids or the bio's. I hate feeling 'played'. To me that one of the worst feelings. Exspecially from someone you love and I love my Daughter.

Just read some of Daughter's Diary, not happy

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I may look nosey, but I respect her privacy for the most part. I was just putting some laundry away and her dairy was laying open on her bed. It expressed her 'love' of getting high with her one friends and also with my neice. Being a single Mother for so long I have talked with her about drugs, sex and drinking and told her of my experiences. I can not throw stones.

Have a great weekend

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Just a quick note to thank you ladies, (and Steve), for all your support & freindship. I can only hope I have added to you.

Well, we are getting slammed with snow here. So I guess I'll be shoveling the next few days.

Hope you all have a great weekend, with no drama.

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