Well, for a second there I thought things were getting better around here. I have made a lot of progress with the stepdaughter who is now 13. Mostly just with things like picking up after herself, shutting her bedroom light off B4 she falls asleep, keeping her shoes off the furniture, little things like that. After the way she treated me a while back I almost hate this kid. Like, I am realizing she is not the person I thought she was and it scares the shit outta me that she is only 13 and is that fake.
Just want to vent a little bit here. I'm not a clean freak with OCD or anything, I'm actually quite lazy for the most part. I just want everything to have a place and guests to be impressed when they come over. I moved into my boyfriend's house and just want to make a few changes. It's totally a bachelor pad set up and I want to make it a home. It's him, his 12 year old daughter, myself, my dog, and next month we will have a newborn baby girl. We have a three bedroom, two bath place and of course, me being the adult female, I do all the cleaning.
So I been on SD12's ass for over two weeks to clean up her mess of a room, she never did clean it so I did it myself. I'm pregnant so I guess it's a nesting thing especially since once the baby comes that will soon be her room. I told SD that if she doesn't keep her room clean or clean it properly I will do it myself and I will throw things away. Spent all morning and finally got it all spick and spam.
Well, my boyfriend and I have known each other for about five years but we have only been a couple for nearly one. Things have happened quite fast, I moved in about six months ago and I am now four months pregnant with my first child. He has a twelve year old daughter and for the most part she is a pretty good kid. Before I moved in I thought she was an amazing kid but now having lived with her I'm noticing some faults.Nothing too bad, just she has no structure and frankly does whatever she pleases.