I bailed, am I overreacting??
So I been on SD12's ass for over two weeks to clean up her mess of a room, she never did clean it so I did it myself. I'm pregnant so I guess it's a nesting thing especially since once the baby comes that will soon be her room. I told SD that if she doesn't keep her room clean or clean it properly I will do it myself and I will throw things away. Spent all morning and finally got it all spick and spam. She didn't say anything to me about it, didn't flip out on me or anything, which was pretty shocking cause that's the second time I have had to clean her room and I know she doesn't like it when I do. That's kinda why I do it, so that she'll finally realize if she just keeps it up herself I won't go throwing her things away. Anyway, I'm pretty sure after I left for work that night she cried to daddy about it and instead of him telling her "well, guess you should have done it yourself like you have been told to for the last two weeks" he just spoiled her all night and got pissed off at me. I had thrown away a camera that she found in the old landlords stuff, which she shouldn't have been going through in the first place. He asked me what I did with it and I said I threw it away. He got all pissy saying it was a perfectly good camera and all it needed was film and that I am to stay out of her room. She has a poloroid camera and a perfectly good digital camera that he bought her that she doesn't take care of or use. So yes I threw away an old camera that didn't even belong to her. I got upset with him being upset with me and took off to my friends house because he should have had my back and held his daughter responsible for her messy room. This is the third day I been at my friends and he hasn't even tried to talk about it and work it out.