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You've Got to Be Kidding Me

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So SD24 is set to fly back from Colorado tonight. She's been told that she and GS4 can't stay here when she comes back, so she was thinking of staying in a hotel or with her sister since she doesn't have anywhere else to stay. She's only been in Colorado for one month. When she went there, she had $1900 saved up.

She calls my wife today saying all of the money is gone from her account, and she can't find her bankcard. Of course my wife is freaking out and texts me.

Master Manipulator

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So tired of SD24's manipulative ways. So she's flying back into town on Thursday, and her flight gets in at 11:30pm. Come to find out that she didn't even verify that she has a place to stay before she bought her ticket. Before they stayed with us for 2 months, they were staying with a friend of theirs. When she left to go to Colorado, the boyfriend stayed behind and is now living with the friend. SD24 asked the friend about staying there again, and he said to give him a week to think about it. Like a dumb ass she went ahead and bought her ticket before he had time to decide.

Stepmonster is coming back

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Well I guess it was good while it lasted. SD24 is still planning on moving back to Oregon with her son. I've made it crystal clear though that she is NOT going to live with us again, so I don't know where she plans on living. Will really suck having her back in the same state again, because DW will just find other ways to enable her irresponsible behavior.

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Help Me Stay Strong

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So DW has now been crying for pretty much two days straight. I almost caved in when I came home from work since she was giving me the silent treatment. Then she said she understood my decision, and she apologized for making me feel guilty.

God Help Me

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SD24 has been in Colorado with her son for not even TWO damn weeks and she's already trying to come back. I knew when she was calling DW a few times a day (she normally will only call when she needs something) that she was just laying the groundwork for her to try and come back.

Countdown has begun!!!!

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I bought the tickets for SD24 and our grandson to fly to Colorado on the 24th of this month! I am excited as hell!

8 more days and a wakeup and she is GONE!!!!

And no, I am NOT letting her move back in if things don't work out. Only way I will let her move back in is if she gets some type of terminal illness. I have learned my lesson!

Drama might finally be over

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I know I haven't been on here in a while, because I thought most of my stepkid problems were over. Of course not...things are never that easy right???

So back in January my SD24 (the youngest stepdaugter) got turned down for public housing because of all of her unpaid traffic tickets. The friend they'd been staying with for 3 months wasn't going to give them an extension on how long they could live there, because he'd already given them a month extension to find a place. It's my SD24, her boyfriend, and our grandson who is 5.

SKID's BF...Parolee

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So my youngest SKID's boyfriend is on parole for getting into a bar fight a few years ago. He was affiliated with a gang at the time, so that's why he was in jail for a few months. He is now currently on parole. As part of his parole, he's supposed to find a job, but of course he hasn't even been looking for one.

Choosing to Stay

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Some of you who have read my previous posts know that my wife and I were contemplating divorce. Well we've been to a few marriage counseling sessions and we've decided to try and work things out. Thanks to those of you who gave good advice and encouragement. Hopefully now that we finally don't have any SKIDs living with us and have the house to ourselves, we can focus on loving each other and reconnecting.

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