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Divorce update

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So from my last blog, you guys know that DW was thinking of leaving me. So during all of this time I've been pleading with her to stay so we can try and work things out. I've bought flowers, cards, and we even started marriage counseling. She wanted me to stop with all of the cards and flowers because she didn't want me feeling like I was kissing her ass in case things didn't work out. She did say at some point a few weeks ago that "She wasn't such a nice person during our marriage". I took it to mean how she let all of the drama with our SD's affect our lives.

Possible divorce

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It's definitely with a lot of sadness that I write this. For those that know me, my wife and I have basically been raising our grandson for almost three years. It has caused a lot of drama and grief in our lives because of us butting heads on the issue. Main issue was my piece of shit SD who basically ran around as she pleased while we took care of her son. Not only did it cause an emotional strain on our marriage, but also a financial strain.

Stepdaughter is a Lost Cause

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So most of you already know how lazy and irresponsible SD22 is. So she and her son have been living in their own place since the end of July. Lately we've also been watching the grandson less, as we told her we will NOT watch him on Tuesday and Saturday nights so we can have a break. In the past few 3 weeks we've only watched him about 2-3 nights a week which is odd, but hey who's complaining.

StepDemon Moved Out!!

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So SD22 finally moved out!! She was staying with us for the past 3 weeks while DW was recovering from surgery, but really she was only supposed to stay a week. My wife was telling her all last that she needed to be moved out by the end of the month.

SD22 found a place last Saturday but was $200 short of the move-in fee. DW told SD22 that we'd give her the money. At first I balked at the idea, but then I thought that it would probably be the best $200 investment I've ever made so I gladly forked over the money.

I Give Up

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On 6/19 my wife went to the emergency room and was admitted to the hospital because she needed to have her gallbladder removed. She left the hospital on 6/22, but then ended up having to go back to the hospital on 6/24 where she stayed for 5 more nights because she had to have 2 more surgical procedures done.

No End in Sight

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So as of last night SD22 is now renting a room from somebody for $300 a month. Of course she still claims that she will eventually get a place big enough so that her son can live with her too, but I really don't see that happening. She blows through money like it's going to rot in her purse if she lets it sit in there for too long.

SD22 lied about having her own place

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So we found out yesterday that SD22 really doesn't have her own place. She moved into an apartment with a friend of hers, and that friend was planning on moving in with her boyfriend, so SD22 would just be taking over the payments. This weekend we agreed to help rent a van so we could move the rest of SD22's stuff out of our house.

SD22 has her own place (we think)

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So SD22 told us on Saturday that she got her own place about 20 miles away. This weekend we were going to assist in getting a truck to move her king sized mattress, but both SD22, DW, and GS3 were all sick. Actually GS3 has been sick all week. I even took 2 days off work to take him to the doctor and to be with him. How many nights has SD22 offered to come over and take care of him? ZERO. But of course she has no problem skipping work to go on a date or go party. I digress...

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