My skids live with us full time because their BM couldn't handle it. Dh has never told them why etc. They are continually asking to go live with their BM. BM plays the victim with the kids all the time. Skids disrespect me, write nasty things about me, say nasty things. DH gets no love from them. Everything they have goes to their BM. She's so perfect in every way. GAG!!!!! I'm to the point where I want to tell my HB, Your kids need to go to their BMs and experience the real BM. No more us paying for lunches, no more us buying clothes, shoes, toys, eating out etc.

My Ex is moving 200 miles away. He has asked me to meet him for pick up and drop off 1/2 way. My divorce decree does not state that I have to do this. Ex is suppose to go the distance per say. So what do I do? Stick to the decree or suck up my pride and meet him? For the last 5 yrs we've been divorced he has lived maybe an hr away and has picked up and dropped off as usual. There have been times in the past where he has thrown the "papers" in my face, stating WE NEED TO GO BY THE PAPERS." In my selfish way I want to say the same thing to him in this case.

I totally had a breakdown today. I'm sick and tired of being the martyr to my DH's children. They blame me for everything, tell people how much they hate me, I'm an evil stepmom etc. I went for the jugular this afternoon. I told them to pack their shit and call their mom to come get them. SS doesn't call but SD does. Of course BM tells her she can't come get her because the courts won't allow her too. WTF!!!!! She's an idiot. I just roll my eyes and head outside. I am always the one to blame when those two don't get their way.

My HB is basically accusing me of cheating on him. He doesn't come right out and say it but his reactions if I speak on the phone to another man or glance their way he's uptight. A little bit of info: I have a very good girlfriend and her brother lives with her, her husband and kids. He's a gentle soul but not physically attractive to me in any way. I've talked to him on the phone about women and how he's been treated and I've also confided in him a little. Not to the extent I would my friend.