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Submitted by Willow2010 on Fri, 12/30/2011 - 9:28am

So…SS has been here almost two weeks. It has not been bad because I have only been around him about 2 hours. And both of those hours was present opening time, of course. And most of that time he talked about how he should be treated special since he is in the military. He should have been the first to open his present since he is in military blablabla.

UGH.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 11:07am

Am I the only one that sees anything wrong with this…?

SS is back for two weeks from the military..ya know....where he rules the superior officers. Lol

He's back!

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 12/19/2011 - 9:19am

So…we are a few days into SS being here for 2 weeks. (His first leave from the military). It has been soso. When SS came to us a few years back, he was a fighter, stealer, liar, hypochondriac..ect…ect. After the two years with us, he was cured of most of that mess when he went to the military. He still lies and talks WAY too much, but he is not turning into near the criminal that I thought he would.

Thanksgiving side dishes.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 11/21/2011 - 9:07am

I am stuck and want to do something different for the side dishes, this year for T-day. I am tired potatoes, green bean casserole and mac n cheese.

Anyone have any great “side” recipes? I also need a better mac n cheese recipe than the one I have. Anyone have a great recipe for that?

YUK!!

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Fri, 11/04/2011 - 8:15am

SS did not live with BM for the past two ish years. He lived with DH and I. I have mentioned before how she is “NOW” MOTY since SS went into military and she loves to point it out on facebook.

She wrote the following on SS’s (18year old) wall last night…
“ To my son XXX XXXXXX. I love you more than life itself. I gave birth to you. I am so proud of the man you are becoming and I can’t wait until you are back home safely with me. You complete me! “

Does your DH do crap like this?

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 11/03/2011 - 11:16am

I remember when DH used to out and out lie to SS about things to make him feel “good” about himself. Example… He made SS think he could bench press 100lb when he was 10 years old. Stupid crap like that.

I thought that it almost stopped before SS went into military. Well yesterday it reared its ugly head again. For the sake of staying anonymous…I will not give many details because of course, what I am griping about is all over freaking face book now. GRR

What do you think.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 10/06/2011 - 3:04pm

I got this from another blog and it made me think….

Do you think your DH would be a better/different parent to his skids, if he and the ex would have stayed together? Do you think BM would have been a better/different parent had they stayed together?

I do. DH had all if the great parent ideas. But he just would not/could not stick to them on those 4 days a month. I am also not sure I would have been any different if I saw my kids for 4 days a month.

I really think 50/50 should be the norm. And NO child support.

Shrink Question

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 1:44pm

So, my DH thinks we need counseling. Now this is due to my irrational request that he not spend weekends or more with his ex. DH wants him, SS and BM to all be able to go site seeing together and to beaches and whatever else SS wants them to do when they all together. YUK!

So my question is this. Would there be a chance in hell that a counselor would actually tell me that I am wrong and that DH should be able to go see his adult son and hang out with him and BM for days? I have no problem with DH going to see SS, just not to act like a family when BM is there.

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