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And so it begins

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If any of you have read my posts from yesterday you'll know that BM has announced to DH that she is kicking her husband out of almost a year and wants a divorce. Now before this guy came into the picture she was stalking DH and actively trying to break us up. I had a sneaking suspicion that this behavior was going to start again. Maybe not the stalking but trying to get DH back.

I think BM might be up to something

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So recently BM has been asking me to hang out with her. (Like going out to have drinks.) She also invited me out to a ladies night where I would go out to see a movie with her and her friends.

She just as of recent made the announcement to DH that she is kicking her now DH out and she wants a divorce. (They alsmost made it a year.) So obvioulsy they have been having problems, I'm assuming for a while.

What I don't get is why this crazy lady would think that I want anything to do with her after all of the crap she has pulled.

Your thoughts

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What would you guys do it your DH told you about how hot his ex wifes body was when they first met?

This was something that was said to me last night when we were at a concert for a date night. To me this crosses some boundaries.

She almost made it a year.

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I guess when DH went to pick up my BD from school BM was their to pick up their kids because it was her week with them. Apparntly she told DH she needed to talk with him about some changes going on over at her house when he had some time. DH asked her what was up and she told him that she's kicking her husband of almost a year out and she wants a divorce.

Some back history here:

BM stalked DH for the first year that we were together. (By stalking I mean going as far as sitting outside of the house at 3 am amongst many other things.)

That effer thought it was funny.

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So I took my BD to see the orthodontist yesterday and it's not good. She has a tooth that's coming in either in front or behind her front tooth that's not disolving the baby root plus it's coming in sideways. She was also born without a permanent tooth on the other tooth just beside her upper two front teeth. She doesn't have enough room on her bottom teeth for all of her permanent teeth to come in.

How do can I increase my child support from my ex?

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Okay.....Before anybody goes off calling me a greedy BM please understand that I do not get much CS per month, I have my BD 100% of the time (he never sees her), and I work full time. I'm not running around spending the CS on myself. It all goes into the household.

My ex has gotten a new job after we split where he went from making 11/hour to driving long haul making significantly more. The health insurance that I have for BD through my work went up this last year after the CS was set.

Is this possible??????

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So for the last over three years I have had the same number. I changed my carrier last year over to verizon but kept the number. I have had no problems responding via text to my ex's request to see his BD.

Monday my ex sends a text wanting to see her on Wednesday and Thursday of this week. I respond back with a that's fine please let me know if your mother is dropping her off since I will be at work still. No response. I respond a couple of hours later with the same request. No response.

O/T Dealing with my Ex and his supervised visitation (Need Advise)

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So my Ex hasn't seen oue BD in over three months. He has supervised visitation with her anytime he wants as long as he gives me a 24 hour notice at his mother's house. Now BD(7) has been spending the day at his mother's house while I'm at work throughout the entire summer so the Ex can see her whenever he wants when he is in town (he drives long haul trucks).

Have a Question in Regards to DH's Divorce Decree (Legal Advise)

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Hey everybody,

Hope you can help a sista out on this one.

DH's divorce decree states that both he and his ex are responsible for paying for 50% of work related child care expenses for each other. Now this hasn't been a problem because both the kids are in daycare at both households. (There was a good six month stint where the ex had both of the kids out of daycare because she got fiered and couldn't afford it.)

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