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Feeling ambushed

So we ended up having thanksgiving dinner at SILs bar. I wish I could say restaurant but quite frankly its a bar with a small amount of bar type foods being served. Anyways it was large enough for the 20ish people that were getting together and it got me out of having to host it at my house which was just assumed by MIL that I could just do that.... Even while pregnant and still in my 1st trimester more lovingly known as where I puke constantly.

Just frustrated -vent

Why? Why? Why?

Why does this woman insist on doing everything in her power to cause trouble? DH gave her 30 minutes with the kids and now they are asking all kinds of questions about where grandma has to go to fill out papers about them? And why would she have to go to where guilty people go to get in trouble? And my favorite..... Why do we have to start going to grandmas every day so she can see us before she can fill out more papers? Oh and equally as grand.... Grandma says you never answer the phone when she calls you.

OT- Doctors appointment and tests

I had another doctors appointment yesterday to check on me and baby. They did bump my due date back by 3 days after studying the ultrasound which is no big deal everything looks really good. They checked babys heartbeat which was 170. Up from last visit when it was 140. I've heard the old wives tale that if its over 140 its a girl but I'm not putting a lot of faith in that

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How is my MIL worse than BM?

So I have been doing my very best to disengage from MIL since her last round of nastyness to me. She calls me I send it to voice mail. She shows up while DH is home I go hide in my bedroom or bathroom. If she comes by and he isnt home I dont answer the door. She invites us somewhere I make sure I have a reason not to go (plans, morning sickness, something) I havent had to deal with her in weeks yay! Ive really been enjoying my peace and sanity. My DH fully understands and does not give me a hard time about it.

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Freaking Witch

I'm pissed! MIL has apparently said to my SS and SD that the new baby will replace them. What kind of witch tells her own grandkids garbabge like that?

Pregnancy hormones kicked in

Well some of my fellow stalkers are going to be proud of me for this one. Looks like my "crazy" pregnancy hormones are kicking in and making it a little more difficult for me to control the things that come flying out of my mouth..... Especially at my noise MIL.

Yesterday evening my FIL needed to borrow something from DH but he doesn't like to drive close to dark. My MIL was out doing something already so he asked her to swing by and collect the item. Ok no problem. DH was home so I figured he would handle her and she would be on her way. (Wishful thinking)

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Big news

I almost decided not to blog about this because ive gotten some less than positive feed back before on my blogs however I could use some good advice at the moment.

DH sticks up for me

So without going into too much detail.... Something rather embarassing and personal happened to me a few months ago that caused a huge problem in our life. In fact it caused us to almost lose our home in the after math of the situation. Needless to say I have been trying to keep it on the quiet side. Well in true trouble maker style my MIL decided to find a parent of some kids my skids go to school with and air out all my skeletons so to speak.

O/T birth control

So I am sitting in the waiting room of the doctors office to get an ultrasound for my IUD. I previously had the arm implant but after a year and a half I couldnt stand the side effects anymore. 2 weeks ago I had it removed and a Nonhormonal IUD inserted. So far so good but it has only just been 2 weeks. At my last appointment however my doctor told me I was a good candidate for liposcopic tubiligation(sp). Meaning basically 2 tiny cuts on either side of my belly button and 30 minutes later my tubes are tied.

I thought we were free and clear. Wrong!

As always MIL (who still has her guardianship at this point) insisted she had to have the skids this weekend. So they spent Friday night with her without incident. Saturday she said she had big plans and would be keeping them again over night. I knew we should have said no but she had already told the skids this is what all they were doing and blah blah blah. MIL also let it slip that the kids had been up past 10pm on Friday even though she knows they have an 8pm bed time and had complained that they had gotten up before 7AM. (Duh! That's why they have an 8pm bed time!)

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