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Sooooo.... DH rings the skids .....

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So, he is excited to ring them, and I don't mind at all.... Because just like the other times before I can see how this is going to pan out.....
He rings sd21 no answer, retries later, no answer, no answerphone to leave a message either.... Younger skid, still living with the BM, is next..... No answer either, no surprise there either. Then DH rings the BM's house line, and gets to talk to her, three sentences and she is brusque with him, no she doesn't know where skid is, or when skid will be back....skid comes and goes as they please, I quote !!! Charming !!!

I Think It's Nearly Time For Another Big Ol' Discussion.....

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Because, I swear my DH has begun doing the red flag waving dance in my line of vision this weekend ....
Do you know the dance I mean ??? DH has contact from the skids, even a memail from sd21 !!! And lo and behold, he thinks they are cured again, what little selective memory he has about how he was treated by her , disappears and he is churning out the old favourite lines.... " I think they are finally growing up " :jawdrop:

I'm Going On A Holiday...... Into The Lion's Den !!!!

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I am disengaged from sd21, it's kept me sane, believe me. DH can pretend all he likes about his relationship with her, dust it with roses, glitter, gold, whatever he wants..... It is what it is..... She is allowed to treat him disrespectfully, and for this pleasure, he gets almost zero contact or interest from her, and he gets to PAY for this service monthly by giving her money.... She's in full time higher education, with full loans, etc.

Hello.... It's been ages.....

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I haven't been posting because, well, it's been fairly quiet recently...... I'm pissed off a little bit as we found out just after Christmas that although the younger Skid has left School, last Aug, and is NOT in fulltime education, apparently we are still paying Child Support for another year, until Christmas 2012 . DH does not want to fight this as we are in a different country, blah,blah, it's only money, blah, blah, he doesn't want to rock the boat, blah, blah .....

NOW.... A phone call from sd21 !!!

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As if a little memail from sd21 isn't enough....... The phone rings last night, our home one, I answer it and it is her. I just said hello when I answered it, gave her no greeting, she then said to get DH to ring her back she is having major Laptop problems.... I say ok and hang up....NO WAY I want to make small talk.

Another memail from sd21.....with shocking news !!! A JOB !!!????

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Well the memail arrived from sd21 on Saturday, I don't think DH has seen it yet, or if he has he doesn't want to talk about it !!

He has been honoured with an " update" as sd21 called this memail..... She is sick again, nothing deadly ( just the usual seasonal sniffles this time of year brings !!) but there is ALWAYS something wrong with her, I am surprised she has made it to 21 !!

All quiet here.....and why not?

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All quiet here and why not....sd21 has recieved her rent money.... There is no reason to contact DH until the next time is there ?? He is of no further use until money is needed. DH will probably start to 'panic' that he hasn't heard from her in a couple of weeks and will obediently type off a guilty email to her....which is exactly what she wants......

Sd21 's photo and lying to DH

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Another photo of sd21 has been posted on a social site not Fakebook THIS time, and a friend of mine ( and the family) bought it to my attention......sigh.

It's not a good photo of her and the sap bf. What is interesting in the last phonecall that DH made to her, like two weeks or so ago, sd21 was telling DH just how much weight she had LOST since her visit to us two months ago. Saying she was wearing all her old smaller clothes, drinking water and the weight had fallen off her, blah,blah to DH.

Still Waiting sd21 ....... Still waiting ......

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Well, sd21 SAID to DH last weekend, that she was signing the new rental agreement on the 20th, then she would email us through the details, plus the Landlord's details, and will even GRACE DH with the actual address of where she has been living for over 5 months !!!

So, we are still waiting for this email...... I mean how long does it take to scan a document in ( she has all the right equipment ) write a few lines and press SEND ???

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