I think there is 7 of them in this house, plus she is sharing a room with the sap bf anyway, so you would think things would be halved. Except, I think only 1 other student in that house has a part-time job...... Sigh.....

I know she set DH up about this rent anyway, but DH won't see it that way, at least we have got as far as calling her out on her lies, especially when it's concerning DH's money !!!! She even TOLD him in her original rent memail, that this works out cheaper for him anyway, because SHE still has to pay for the internet and utilities.......my heart bleeds for the poor entitled LAMBY !!!!!! ( last year DH paid for campus accomodation, which was covered for all the utilities, etc )

Yep, you do have to pay for these things, and guess what it's called life, and guess what you need to get a JOB !!!

Well, still no word from sd21 . DH has a seperate email account just to contact her on, it was my idea after last year's fiasco about secret squirrel memails and money been sent to her, long story I have already mentioned on here in posts.

This way DH doesn't forget to mention it to me, and we don't row about it anymore.....it is nipped in the bud. It also shows just how LITTLE she can be bothered to contact him, and I think he sees that very clearly now.

He is back soon from a business trip and I expect he will talk to me about it , and I will have to ask him what he is going to do if she doesn't supply this information . Surely he has a right to know WHO he is paying the rent to and to know the address of the place he is paying rent for ???

He is such a clever, rational and very successful man in his life I just don't get how STUPID he can be about sd21. I always tell him to lead by example, don't make rules IF you are not going to follow them and how it sends mixed signals to sd21, who then in return just walks right over HIM !!! Demand for money.....money sent...no questions....no thankyous.....no contact from her until the next time. Now he has stopped this, and yes, I think it is much much harder for him to do, sd21 thinks it's ALL me doing this....it's not .... Plus it's not my money, but it's always my fault, because I am in the way and I hate her. Such an old record......yawn !!

I know I have that nasty feeling in the pit of my stomach, that something is going to be dropped in our laps soon.
Support herself ??? That's not part of her fairystory.....no way.....first she has to make sure everyone knows her tale of woe ( there isn't one !! ) how her Daddy now lives in an enchanted place under the spell of the nasty wicked stepmother, boo hoo. How terrible her life is....how she suffers.....

I agree it is terrible......how terrible her life is soooo ENTITLED !!!!

Well, a memail came through late Friday evening from sd21, DH didn't notice it until very late last night......he only checks that account like once a week, as it's rare for her to send him ANYTHING...

There is a copy of the lease, one little page of scrawled information. She didn't add anything else in her three line memail, like hey Daddy, here is the lease and here is my address, etc, etc. Just here is a copy of the lease,( what YOU made me send you and YOU are paying less than the last few years AND I am worse off because YOU are successful and have a JOB and EARN money !!!! )

Sd21 it was your choice to move out of campus accomodation and in with the sap bf etc. Yes, it is less than last year BUT you KNEW you would have to pay extra bills !!! Don't come crying to us for yet more money, as I am seriously wanting to tell you that sitting on your arse for the last five years and NEVER working a proper job, not even a Weekend thing or Summer work, just keeps on adding a truckload of carriages to your karma train!!!

DH now knows where she lives at least, I was right in assuming there are 7 students in total sharing this delightful abode......it has 3 bedrooms, plus a couple of the reception rooms are being used as bedrooms now and there is ONE bathroom.....oh my..... I pity the poor fools sharing that bathroom with sd21.......eeeeek !!!!!

DH did say the lease is real and he is happy to now pay, as we agreed we would with proof. BUT, he did say he is splitting each term's rent into two instalments.....so sd21 will not be able to SPEND it all.....and then come crying to him for more money for " food " then spend it on sap bf AND tell the whole wide World all about it on the Internet !!! Was really surprised he decided to do it that way, he really is beginning to learn a little about her ways ...........