Continuing the MIL saga, after MIL invited herself to join DH on his weekend away with SSs, DH took a moment to tell MIL how hurt he was that MIL insisted upon meddling with BM and how he feels like he can't trust her. He told her that he feels like she always just makes excuses and doesn't take responsiblity or apologize. This is the second time DH has told MIL how hurt he was. Instead of apologizing, MIL just told DH that he was being unreasonable and people make mistakes and he needs to move on. So, he leaves it at that and he and I both talk about how MIL will not likely change.

I was familiar with the Betty Broderick case before I met BM, but become a bit fascinated by her after having to deal with the BM in my life who exhibits many borderline traits and in my view, could easily turn to a murderous rage if DH tried to challenge her on a) the children or b) money. 

SSs are on DH's insurance. Today, we get a notice from the insurance company asking us to provide them more information on an injury that "could have been caused by an accident."

Apparently, on April 20th, one SS went to a hospital 20 miles from his home to get treatment for an"unspecified injury of external genitals, inital encounter." Um, what?! 

BM  has been relatively silent for the last few weeks, but this weekend she emailed and asked DH when he would resume his visits. Less than 24 hours later, she sends the same message again and adds that overly-dramatic SS (the one who found it "traumatic" to come to our home less than six months ago), said, "it's so unfair that I can't see my dad." DH has been facetiming with both kids regularly and neither has said, "hey dad, when can we come to your house?", apparently, they only share their "feelings" with BM.