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some one should tell BM that Facebook is public even when its 'private'
I see this on here a lot, seems most BM don't realize that what they post on Facebook - even if you account it marked 'private' - it still has a way of getting around.
Theory confirmed BM does send skids to school dressed retarded
A month or so ago I posted complaining about the cloths BM sends skids over in and it was suggested that these are just for switch days but I have recently been helping out at the school (because I have nothing better to do) and I can tell you that she sends then to school in the same ugly, too small or dirty clothes.
Yesterday was embarrassing! I help out and this after school running club and they had a 'run with a relative' day so DH and I invited FIL and MIL to come run with the boys since BM wants nothing to do with it other than it being free daycare.
At what age do SOME skids realize BM is full of crap?
Key word is SOME! Lol. The other day FIL went off on DH about telling BM to stop lying to skids. DH explained that its like asking her not to breathe, she denies lying but nothing she says makes sense.
The irony of it all is FIL thinks that one day ss8 will wake up and see BM for who she is but he can't see similar behavior is his own mother and to this day he still tries to please she. She is a bully and mean to him all the time. DH and I don't talk to gma because she doesn't like me and is angry the DH and I don't cater to her of let her bully us.
Birds and the bees
How much info is too much info for an 8 yr old boy?
DH and I have been trying to get pregant since our wedding this past fall and have been honest with ss8 about our desire to have a baby and we have even taken steps to prepare for a baby. But it hasn't happened yet and ss8 is staring to wonder where the baby is and when to expect it.
Oddly enough most of these questions are ask to me when DH is not around and I have always tried to be honest with him but not too honest.
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BM got pissy because she couldn't reach me
The school called be used ss5 had a headache. The school does not call us even if its our week to have the boys because that is the way SHE set it up. So BM tried to call me since it was our week but she was already on her way to get him. She couldn't get a hold of me, I was on a field trip with ss8. So he called DH and got pissy that I wasn't around so he told her where I was. Then it was a little ok.
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Selective hearing strikes again
Ss5 had an IEP last week and it was suggested by the physical therapist that he MIGHT not have Autism. She said that while it may have been the closest thing the doctor could come to in order to describe his issues at the time(he was 3), Ss5 no longer displays some of the major signs of autism.
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The Up Grade
I know a lot of you on here consider yourself to be 'The Up Grade', but do you live up to the name? Or was the ex really so bad and anything would be an improvement?
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Expensive tastes
BM was complaining to DH that everything ss7 wants for his birthday is expensive. I think she was waiting for him to offer to go in with her on something but we already got his gift. His party is this weekend and his bday is Monday. Way to plan ahead BM.
DH told that just because he asks for something is doesn't mean that she HAS to get it for him. We flat out told him no on some things.
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why does BM put sKids in clothes that are too small?
is it her way of thinking that they AREN'T growing up? Does she not look at them after SHE dresses them?
Yes we do have our own clothes (thank god), it's 50/50 EOW custody but even when it comes to things like jackets and shoes she always gets them too small. Heaven forbid DH buy anything for them, if we send it to her house we usually never see it again. So it's not like we haven't tried. Our answer is to buy our own and keep them at our house. I am waiting for SS7 to realize what is going on and say something but he is pretty clueless.
there is something odd going on
SS7 seems very sad dispute our efforts to lift his sprites but when asked he claims that everything is fine.
From the time he walked in the door I noticed something was off, he tried to walk right into the toy room but I stopping him because he had a sucker and I don't allow food any where but the dining room. And no I wasn't mean about it.
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