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I always knew BM was a fraud

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Sun, 06/23/2013 - 9:25pm

But I didn't know that she married one as well.

DH has been getting comments at work about the safety of his kids while at BM's house but didn't think anything of it until one of the guys at work told him the BM's hubby, "Chubby", got caught in insurance fraud and rolled on another guy that got busted in a big way, I guess he was the one in charge. The other guy was in the news so I went back and read the news article on the matter and it has Chubby's name in there and states the this other guy got him 'involved in insurance fraud' but charges against him have not been filed.

would it be wrong to involve skid in a little social 'experiment'

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 06/18/2013 - 8:42am

Sunday I let SS8 snuggle with me, I usually don't but I wanted to see what would happen. He LOVED it. In fact he ran and told MIL that we cuddled and I am sure he told BM after we switched custody.

IMO SS8 is too old to be snuggling but BM baby's him so much and he absolutely craves his mother's attention but rarely gets it. With EOW custody I am kind of a surrogate for him on our weeks. He just follows me around and pretty much ignores DH, who does try to snuggle him and spend time with him.

Gifting and Father's Day

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 6:52am

So far BM hasn't gotten DH anything for Father's Day. It's in the CO though that they have to assist sKids in getting gifts for the other parent on some holidays.

Not that we are worried. She always buys him weird crap. But the reasons why interest me. We think BM is having money issues, when they first got divorced BM would buy him expensive things and DH would always get her something small but in recent year BM has started getting the hint and getting small things.

How do you step-mother a momma's boy?

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 9:25am

I can't wait for SS8 to see the psychologist on the 24th, that kids has issues with an over attachment to his mother(IMO), depression, anxiety, attention and sleep. All of which drives me nuts because I am a SAHM and I have to deal with him. All in all he is a good kid, very sweet and loving.

SS8 and I have a good relationship for the most part. I am a lot harder on him than BM but I do more with him. But the bottom line is that he wants to be with her (and she doesn't want to be with him).

suggestions please on developing awareness and fine motor skills

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Fri, 05/31/2013 - 8:22am

in children 6 to 8 years of ages? Summer is almost hear and I have agreed to work with SS6 and SS8 over the next few months on developing age appropriate skills. As of right now SS6 is actually BETTER than SS8 because he gets help at school. But both of them seem to be in capable of doing mundane tasks, they either don't pay attention or give up too easily.

BM laughs at Ss8 sneaking stuff to school

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Thu, 05/30/2013 - 3:58pm

The last time the skids were here we caught ss8 sneaking trading cards to and from school as well as sneaking them between house holds which we do not allow.

DH told BM about it and she just laughed. Ss8 has gotten in trouble at school many times for the cards and I heard teacher tell him no more trading cards at school they are a distraction to him.

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