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Venting about ss17

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This ended up being wayyy longer than I expected. Sorry. 

Ss17 has really been getting to me lately. It may seem like small insignificant things but they just have all added up. He had to have surgery on his knee a few years ago and although the doctor said it would be stronger than it's even been, he's tweeked it twice since. Now, I'm sure he might have some discomfort, but he uses it as a crutch to not do anything. 

Am I a Grinch?

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Is anyone else having trouble getting into the Christmas spirit? It used to be my favorite holiday but for some reason, this year it just feels like a chore. SS17 and Ss14 don't even seem that worried about it. They've mentioned things that they would like to have but it was more like forced ideas because we asked them. Like long johns. Hubby and I spent a couple hours decorating the other day and they had no interest in that either. Ss14 is making Christmas cards today in one of his classes and was disappointed they'd be listening to Christmas music. 

Did I miss my chance at being a BM? Do I even want to be one?

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I've never really wanted kids. But when I met my current husband he had two sons. They are 17 and 14 now. We've been together for over 8 years, married for a year and a half. I love him to death. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me..  Which is why I keep my mouth shut about his kids. They're not bad kids. Just lazy and irresponsible. And it drives me crazy. I know it sounds terrible, but im just trying to bite my tongue until they move out.