We were getting ready to eat dinner. all kids are sitting down, bf's son says can i eat..bf says no wait for everyone. I walk in to the dining room with last thing needed, my son says "everyones here, Im going to eat," He grabs the serving spoon and proceeds,boyfriends son tries to wrestle it away from him claiming he had first dibs, My oldest says Not everyones sitting...bf tells my son to to put it back, and since he grabbed first he can eat last