Were my actions wrong? need some more input please
We were getting ready to eat dinner. all kids are sitting down, bf's son says can i eat..bf says no wait for everyone. I walk in to the dining room with last thing needed, my son says "everyones here, Im going to eat," He grabs the serving spoon and proceeds,boyfriends son tries to wrestle it away from him claiming he had first dibs, My oldest says Not everyones sitting...bf tells my son to to put it back, and since he grabbed first he can eat last
Next... we pray, and then bf son grabs spoon and serves himself and starts to slurp his food up, couple other kids make their plate, then I tell son (who is supposed to wait) to give me his plate so i can fix it, and continued to serve that side of the table.
Bf gets ticked and walks out
Was I wrong for serving my son, and not making him go last, btw...I served myself last.