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WOW what a week

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Well this was our first week of the summer with all 3 kids (BS6 and 10 SD6) We picked SD up on Friday and then took them all to Idilewild park and Storybook Forest on Sat with the in laws and had a great time.

Joint decison making

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That is what hubby and his ex are suppose to have but yet we never know when sd has a Dr apt or anything that is going on. She just called to say oh by the way while you have sd this coming week she has a check up OMG she didn't change it I am amazed now the question will be as I have said in my last post who is taking her the ex says that hubby can drop her off to her on his way to work why on earth get her up so early when she doesn't have to I can drop her off or even take her arghhhhhhhh.

SD first visit for the summer

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SD coming Friday for our first week of the summer. We get her every other week during the summer and last year we did not live together so this will be new to all of us we are use to having her every other weekend but a week to a 6yr is a long time. Any way, biomom called and left dh a message that sd has a Dr appt on the 21 and if he can't take her then "He" can drop SD off to her and she will take her and meet him or his parents after wards to drop SD back off.

IEP meeting today with the ex there...

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he never came to any meetings before why now!! I have an IEP meeting this morning concerning holding 6 yr old bs back in kindergarten. I am so unsure of what to do and have been told that I can request he be tested late in the summer to see where he is then decide what grade to put him in 1st or kindergarten.

ADD, ODD Mood disorder

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First Global developmental delay with low tone, then Inattentive ADD and now to put the icing on the cake now they think 6 yr old BS has a mood disorder or ODD ( Obsivie Defiant Disorder) I don't know what else I can do I feel so overwhelmed I don't know if I can take much more.

CPS update....

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Well as most of you know DH and I were being investigaed for abuse and neglat of my boys well I recivied letters from CPS today stating that the alligations were unfounded and the boys are in a safe home. What great news to hear on our one week wedding aniversary.(yeah I know it is corny it is just a week but what a great week it has been)

Mothers day was pretty good gifts from all the kids and hubby too of course he is the one that bought them all but the kids helped pick them out)

Getting married TODAY OMG....

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Yes today it was a spur of the moment thing we were going to go out of town but made some calls yesterday and we are getting married here at 11am. OMG....I am sooooooooo nervous. The only people we have told was our parents and my boys (6yrs and 10yrs) I gave them the option to go to school or go with us and they are going with us. I am nervous and excited all in one. I can't belive it is finally going to happen. His parents and my mom are going to be there. His ex is probably going to sh**.

Communication with BM

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Ok here is the deal H2B is out of town for work won't be back until maybe Thursday. We had SD for the weekend and an extra day so I took her to school on Monday (H2B left at 4am) so anyway SD is 6 in Kindergarten so i did not feel it was right to try and send her suitcase to school with her along with her back pack so I called H2b and he agreed it was to much for her to carry and the he would contact BM and make arrangement to get the suit case to her when he returned home.

What if????

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Did any of you that are remarried deal with the what ifs'? I am engaged to a great guy that makes me feel better about myself than I ever dreamed possible. But I sit and wonder what if about a lot of things like in the past what if he wakes up one morning and decides that this woman and her 2 kids aren' worth it, what if things change once we are married, what if I can't handle his new job promotionthat involves him traveling during the week and home on weekends.

Is this normal am I over reacting?

bm has new baby

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I can't belive the nerve of bm. I will try and fill you in it was her year to have sd for spring break so we have not seen her since April 4 ( we usually get her one night a week and everyother weekend and everyother week in the summer) anyway H2B was called out to work Sat night before Easter and was gone until 3 am Monday morning. Tries to call sd but of course her mother never answers anyway we don't hear from her all week until Sat April 14 she calls to tell Daddy that Mommy had her baby. WTF!!!

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