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BS doesn't like H2B

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Help, 10yr old bs told me yesterday that he doesn't like h2b and doesn't want us to get married. He thinks it should just be me, him and his little brother forever. He doesn't want a step dad or step sister. I am floored I don't know what to think or how to deal with this.

What a week.....

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Last week was unreal and this one is not starting out much better. Lets see where do I begin. In case you haven't read my other blogs my h2b slapped my youngest in the mouth for spitting in his face about 2 weeks ago, my ex found out and said he was going to have him arrested.

urgh here we go again

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I don't even know how to begin I am so mad at the ex I could spit nails. Yesterday I had to be at work at 5am so that left h2b to get my boys off to school (which is not always easy the youngest is not at all a morning person) anyway I get a call at 7:15 saying he can't take it anymore we have to figure out something with the little one.

Spring is here!!!

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The birds are chripping the sun is shining and life is getting bridghter. I am a BM and after reading some of the posts on this site it made me stand back and think. The Ex (which is really a pain in my ass) called this week and ask for more time with the boys at first I said No way you agreed to what is in the paper work and that is that. Well then I got to thinking about a lot of you that want to see you kids and can't so I did a lot of thinking and decided to be the bigger person on this one I mean hell atleast their dad wants to see them right?

ok girls here we go

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Youngest BS has inattentive ADD so is on medication everymorning and it is the fight from hellto gethim to take it. Needless to say fiance' called me at work today (it is Sunday and I work and he is at home so he keeps my boys and his daughter while I work 11 hrs) anyway he calls and informs me that he is done that he can't take it or do it anymore that BS had spit his meds all over the kitchen and him not just once but 2 or 3 times this morning.

well here we go again

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This past fall the ex called and wanted to talk to me in person so we met in a public location to "talk" Well he was angry about BF punishing our youngest and he began screaming at me in the parking lot telling me that he was not going to return my boys and all the usually stuff they tend too threaten.

Why??????

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Why is it that the ex always says he is going to do something and then never follows through???? Here I was being nice and letting the ex keep the boys an extra night and what do I get in return homework not done, a project that he said he would take care of and a prescription that he was suppose to refill and didn't. I knew letting them stay the extra night would come back to bite me in the ass it always does.

Things are getting brighter

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Well gang here is how the last few days have been....Thursdays visit to Sylvan was a breeze the ex didn't show up so of course the little one had no problems or fits(imagine that since according to him the little one has those fits when he is there or not) Friday went smooth the ex picked the boys up from the sitter after school so I didn't have to deal with him (thank goodness) Sat was the youth state wrestling tournament for my 10 yr old and the ex took him. My finace' (I love that word) and I showed up befor wrestling began.

Good but still a little bad evening

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Well girls I guess we can't have everything...yesterday the evening started out pretty awful my youngest started a Sylvan Learning center and his dad showed up (now mind you he never did shit before he left over a year ago so why now) anyway the 6yr old had a big baby fit kicking screaming and crying like a 2 yr old because Daddy was there and he didn't think he should have to go back to the teacher.

the exs do they have to make life so unbearable

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Ok, so here is my situation....I have 2 bio boys and my bf has a daughter. We have his daughter every Wed and every other weekend during the school yr. and every other week during the summer. Here is some of my issues....His ex refuses to act like I exist when we began seeing one another he was still hoping to get back with his ex but was begining to understand that she wasn't coming back....I told him to try and get her back and she pretty well slammed the door in his face.

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