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DH allows the BM to take the boys out of state to go see "Noah's Ark". By Tuesday of this week, she told him that they almost lost my oldest bonus son via drowning because him and his biological sister were left unattended at the pool. The grandparents were drunk and wasn't watching them. I was so pissed and I just looked at him and walked off. I was quiet all day til he had to ask what's wrong. Like I've told him, I'm disappointed in his dumb decision knowing that she is on the Child Abuse Registry. He told me he chose to let them go with her and wasn't looking for an approval.

Just triflin'....

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So recently, I've blogged about the BM being unreasonable abuot how the boys hair should be cared for. Again, she knows nothing about caring for any of her kids nor do she want advice for it. She just thinks everything happens with a snap of a damn finger. Well, my husband and I found out that she had the doctors not allow me to bring them to their appointment when there is a court order showing they're all in our care full time. She's been avoliding child support and refuse to show the judge that she had completed rehabilitation through court order.

The BM just wont let up and be reasonable with common sense...

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So my husband and I decided to fix one of his boy's locs becasue of his texture of hair. Please keep in mind that I am a license hairstylist and I know about all textures of hair. His BM does not know a thing about hair...PERIOD!! She can't even do her daughter's hair since she is mixed right along with her boys too. We decided to not start the boys hair with locs a while back because they were being disrespectful and causing confusion at home. When we told her that, she decided to be spiteful and go and get their hair done. We get it, those are her boys as well.

Finally, the veil has been lifted and they have been exposed!!!

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So, here's the thing... I've finally reached my breaking point. I know some of yall told me to find an exit once I gather my resources. Indeed I have gathered more than that. I have stop giving a damn. lmbo My oldest step son had told his mom that he got bit by a bug from a hotel that we stayed when we didn't have any hot water. When his mom told me that, I've looked at him. I looked her and told her that he told me that he was bit by a bug from her house. I looked at him and said how he has lost my trust and have no respect for adult's business.

Another day and I still feel like screaming but I don't...

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Being a stepparent is hard It seems that when you have a problem with a child or their parent, people who are not in your shoes, think you are trying to keep children from parents. That is a bunch of crap! Right now, I am only 34 years old. I am shocked at how I do not have gray hair or even loss any of my hair yet. I've became a stepparent in 2016. I went to jail in 2017 just for overnight because of me whipping up on the biological behind her consistantly harrassing me. It was a a hell of a year to know that she has a no contact order on me and was stil trying to cause trouble.

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