DH recently retained a lawer to finally get visitaion and establish child support since after 9 years BM has never set it and constantly tells him he is not allowed to see the child even though he still gives her a monthly check and pays for clothes every season and every other costs (medical, activities). She got served today and called hysterical and first said she would be willing to agree to the terms we asked for in visitaion as long as she wasn't mouthed (she has had another child removed by her other ex, reason unknown).

I hope she takes 1/6 of my dirty dishes and laundry cause I'm a stay at home mom! LOL! She somehow found out I'm pregnant so BM calls DH to tell him she knows I'm pregnant and that she could take him to court for 1/6 of his income. He said go ahead, I've been telling you to file CS for years! Since he pays her more than that every 2 weeks anyways. Then she tells him that she'll ask for 1/6 of MY income as well. Good luck on that one sweetie! Well now that she knows we are happily pregnant she wants to rain on our parade but anyway she goes, we still win. BOOM!

BM leaves DH a voice message asking if he is going to help with school supplies. I was just wondering what is a fair amount to add for school utilities and uniforms? He usually pays for extras by calling directly and paying over the phone with his card since we live out of state and dont trust her with extra money. Would you even consider helping after child support is given anyways? I think he should since its a pretty big once a year expense, just need help since Ive never had to make that kind of purchase. Thanks experienced moms for any help!

My husband recieved a text last night, BM asking for a little bit more money to buy the kid pants and shoes cause all HER money went to pay for HER school. Excuse me but why is HER school our problem? Its not so she will keep getting the same amount she gets every other week for the kid. I try but cant seem to comprehend her logic.