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Does she think they are suddently friends?

MamaG's picture

My husband gets a text saying "Your son has been acting up at school. You should talk to him!".
He responds with "I've tried to call the past two days. No answer or call back." So he just calls and son answers. DH asks him what is wrong and to start behaving better in school or he was going to come live with us if he needed to have dad discipline him since he isnt listing to anyone else. SK says sorry and he will behave better in school. They talk for a few more minutes as usual and say goodbye. Then Evil Witch texts DH saying "Dont you ever tell my son he is going to live with you! He is MY boy! Just saying, ttyl!" WTF?!?!? He answers with "I was giving him an ultimatum, he either behaves or he comes to live with me so I can straighten him out since you can't. Do you have a better idea?" She says "Nope, I was just joking. Lighten up!" What the flip goes on in her head?!? That all of the sudden he is in a joking mood after all she has done, said, and keeping the kid away when she feels like or or wants more money? I don't understand her logic.

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MamaG's picture

I'm pretty sure she tried to get him to lash back to tie him up in a text war. It's redonkulous how attention, even if it's negative attention, is ok for her as long as he is giving her his time. But good thing he has seen the light and doesn't do that anymore!

MamaG's picture

I know right?!? Cause we actually have a structured home where kids throw their trash away, put dishes away, say please and thank you. Never at her house! He can eat cereal out of the box, play video games till it's bed time and curse back as she is calling him names too. Of course coming to dads would be a punishment. I think he will see she is taking the easy "parenting" route in a few years though, while dad is actually trying to raise him to be a good kid.

smdh's picture

I feel your pain. Our BM called Dh to chat about the death of an old friend the day after calling CPS on us. Nutbags all around.