Hello fellow step parents. This is my first entry but Ive been reading daily for the past month or so. Now I have a concern I need help with. My husband and I have been in the military for a few years now, been saving and investing so we now own 5 properties. We will move into one while the others are leased. BM threatens to file CS everytime she has a meltdown or when one of her boyfriends break up with her.