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His Ex has lost it!!! Help I am drowning in SD's

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So DH and I are back from the honeymoon for 7 full days, when we hear that my older SDs 17 and 15 may be living with us full time! :? There mother "abandoned" them while we were on the honeymoon, and they were staying with their grandmother for those two weeks.

SD's 17 and 15 have never lived with DH and I? Now they may be full time??? Can their mother leave them to move to another state with no warning?

Picking Up FSD7 at the police station tonight and looking for advice

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BM refused to pay for her week of FSD7's summer camp, so that FDH and I could work on our days that FSD will be with us, and so that BM can work on her "classes." Now that she has disrupted the schedule FDH and BM decided to meet at the police station to exchange FSD. FDH wants me to be there, at least in the car, as her text messages have gotten nasty and the last time they were face to face she spit in his face and told him to hit her. So I feel I need to support FDH and be another adult there.

FSD to take a gift from me to BM's house, hmmmm???

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I went to Cabo this weekend (Fri-Sun for my cousin's bachelorette party) and I got FSD a bracelet. She must be taking somewhat of a liking to me because she actually wanted to wear it to camp this morning Wink FSD7 was with FDH and I last night and she will be back at her mom's for the next two nights. I can't wait to see what BM will text/call FDH about tonight???

Almost married, almost ready to run for the hills!

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Hi I am not too new here, I have responded to many posts but I have not posted anything of my own. I feel really sad that I think the only way I will be able to be happily married to future DH is if I disengage with his daughter7 Sad After reading the first few chapters of Stepmonster and a few other books I think that this is the only formula that makes any sense for my situation. Future SD7 has a mother who is already using PA against future DH.