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BM to get paperwork asking for more custody of FSD7 and a redution in CS today

Lovepets's picture

Any advice on what to expect? Thanks!


pat's picture

Good luck , you are going to need it. My ex tryed everything to block my reduction and the court believed her. May the force be with you.

Lovepets's picture

Thank you Pat! May I ask what happened? We are in CA (if that makes a difference). I am sure BM will cry/lie/plead/scream do whatever she can to block this as well. I am trying to convince FDH to pay her the "equalization payment" he owes her from their divorce 3 years ago. He has never been late on the payments but she went behind his back and took money from FSD's 7 summer camp and he is so angry about it he didn't pay her this month. He has never missed CS but I am worried the courts will look at FDH harshly. All of this is so depressing Sad . Thanks again!

Lovepets's picture

Thanks vickmeister, mission: duck and cover!
That's what I am afraid of! :jawdrop: I feel bad that FDH's timing is off, BM will have FSD7 this weekend and I don't even want to imagine the BS she will be spreading around her 1 bedroom apartment (already littered with 4 indoor cats, and 2 birds)!!!

WifeVersion2.0's picture

We decided to make our requests in two separate motions. We have court next week for the visitation changes and then we plan on filing a motion to modify CS. It costs a little more to do it this way but we didn't want them lumped together.

Good luck. When our BM was served we never heard a word about it. She hadn't said anything about the impending court date until today. Funny how sometimes they act totally opposite from what you expect them to. Let us know!

Lovepets's picture

Thanks Wife, that gives me some hope (I can't decide everything Wink clearly ) Maybe she will surprise us and handle the situation with class and understanding }:) .