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Disengaging

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The past year my SS 13 who we see on the weekends has been trying to disengage himself from us. Recently it has gotten very bad. Of course we have rules and his mom doesn't have rules. We have had major issues with him being disrecpectful to us when he is at his mom's house. He will not return phone calls or sends rude texts. She won't return phone calls as well. He came home this past weekend stating he no longer has a good relationship with his dad, he wants to be at her house more..., and thinks his dad does not satisfied with him!

Letting go...

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My SS13 is very close to our family. I have a bio. 3 yr old son as well. We normally talk to him when he is at his mom's everyother day just to check in and say we are thinking of him. It has been this way for at least 5 yrs. He recently got a cell phone. We finally let him bring phone home to our house, but we set a rule no phone/ text past 10pm.