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OT-ish: Public School Fees are Ridiculous

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$525. For public school. $525!!!

It seems outrageous to me that it's that costly. I know it's high school. I know YSK is in special classes that fit better with their learning. But HALF A GRAND feels egregious.

Anyone want to take bets on whether ET will toss in some cash towards it, or even acknowledge that the fees exist? I mean, she likes to forward every other email about $$$ trips and fundraisers hosted by the school. Surely she'll want to contribute to their actual school fees...

DH actually held ET accountable!

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In a previous blog, I was venting about ET not having a vehicle that would work in the rain. Well, that has now evolved into not having a working vehicle at all. I am so incredibly tired of her not being able to do the bare minimum but expecting to maintain Mommy Dearest status.

Apparently DH felt the same. YSK was supposed to go to ET's this past weekend, but we had plans on Sunday so couldn't take them down and pick them up. So DH messaged her, said we had plans, and if she couldn't handle transport on Sunday that he couldn't bring YSK.

My god, she just keeps lowering the parenting bar...!

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I'm having an emotional day pregnancy-wise, so this is bothering me WAY more than it should. So I just want to get it out there.

YSK lives with DH and I full-time. ET is supposed to have YSK every other weekend plus half of breaks. So far this summer she took precisely zero weeks and is playing catch-up on weekends. No big deal, YSK prefers to spend as little time with her as possible.

OT and Need Advice - I feel like I'm getting effed over at work...

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Background: I was hired several years ago as a project manager for projects in my local jurisdiction. My boss was taking on new responsibilities, so she offered me the chance to take on one additional project that is part of our regional jurisdiction. Our site gets extra funding to do this regional project management, and I got a pay bump for taking this on. Basically, I'm supposed to split my time 50/50 between this regional project and my local projects.

O/T - I'm Pregnant!

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Super early "announcement", but after nearly three years of fertility treatment and two rounds of IVF, I'm fracking thrilled that I can even get pregnant and something FINALLY worked!

First ultrasound is next week. Beta tests look good and my fertility doc seems happy. We have two more embryos on ice, too! I'm trying to just be happy and not let my anxiety take over (and yes, I have a therapist now who I'm going to be leaning on to help with this).

Update on MIL being scammed...

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You can read my previous blog for backstory, but would love any additional thoughts going forward.

MIL continues to give money to scammers, to the point that her cell phone has been shut off and her car is in limbo. Well, apparently no cell phone = no contact with her scammer. Seems like a good thing, right?

NOPE. Scammer sent a lackey to MIL's house so that she could use the lackey's phone to call the scammer. BIL was there and recorded the conversation, then immediately called the cops. Cops said they couldn't do anything because no crime was actively being committed.

MIL is laundering money/part of an elder abuse scam...

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Blog hog today, and would love some advice from anyone who has been through this.

Bit of background: MIL suffered a traumatic brain injury 15+ years ago due to a work-related accident. Since then, DH says she hasn't been the same. Her personality shifted greatly and she has become a very self-centered, stubborn person who has problems connecting cause and effect. It makes her very gullible, but she has had enough cognition to not need a POA assigned to her.

NEW UPDATE: ET asked DH to help her move out of her (now ex) BF's house...

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UPDATE: Now she called and ask if DH would come down to use our AAA to tow her broke-down truck back to whatever hovel she is living in so it doesn't get impounded. I told DH to tell her that he wasn't available but I was. Let's see how that goes.

He did also text OSS to tell him not to help his mom if she reaches out to him tonight. Hopefully he listens to DH.

ORIGINAL: You know, the BF she told DH she was "taking things slow with" at Thanksgiving and moved in with right after Christmas? That one.

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