There have been many posts on here regarding reading a spouses text messages, emails etc. Many state this is an invasion of privacy. Many justify the person who 'peeked' has the right to know what is going on in their house, with their finances etc.

My thoughts on this are perhaps a bit different.

DH has the passwords to my facebook, emails (except work) and has the liberty to pick up my phone and scroll through any phone calls I may have made or text messages I have sent or received.

Ok 4 skids ages 18sd,17ss,16sd,15ss.

8pm last night the doorbell rings.
skid4 goes to answer it. DH and I are sitting on the couch watching tv and can hear voices at the front door and just kind of assume that its one of ss15s friend at the door since he is talking to them. We can't hear the conversation over the tv, can just tell that theres two voices talking.

Yeah, no. SD18 was in the kitchen and walked over to DH and told him whomever was at the door was asking for him and skid4 was telling them his dad wasn't home.

Final test results are IN!!!

SD18 has passed ALL of her classes, regular school AND night school!!!

Right before BM went into Jail for a year (supposedly who knows how long with how they do math) the magistrate/judge approved her for one single supervised visit with the skids so she could see them prior to going to jail. Due to time constraints, the visit never happened which did upset the skids and BM.

The order did not state that the visit had to take place before her incarceration (though that was the plan) just allows for 1 visit supervised by "x" company.