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I returned home from our vacation, which was a wonderful break i might say- only to walk into a tense, irritable home when all i really wanted was to feel like we ( my 2 girls- 7 & 14 ) had been missed. For us, not because i do absolutely everything around here, including setting all my husbands clothes out for work-

vacation away from it all!

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What a relief! i did leave my dh and my ss16 at home and went 5hrs away to a cozy condo with my parents. dh said he cant come because he cant get the time off work, but i know ts because he cant make ss come or behave! I wish he could have come with us. it makes me sad he doesnt get to have a break from his son. i miss him, and its hard that i need to defend his actions to my parents. they love me, and wish that things were different . It also makes me realize how much the stress affects me & my 2 daughters. hmm wish things were a bit easier..

My head hurts!!

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so, for those who have read a bit you wont be surprized at the latest...

My dh decided he also needs some help coping with his son, so off the the local mental health office.. 1st. they wanted to talk to him about ss16 "mark' on his wrist, and let him know the proper procedure of he tries to hurt himself with a greater attempt. He claims it was from playing around with his buddies.. ya right.

ungrateful monster

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Well, again, my SS16 has managed to controll our holiday~ We started by the kids( my 2 daughters) and the evil SS16 coming out of their room to see what santa brought, Girls were thrilled, began exploring their gifts- a DS and a camera- while SS16 sat on the loveseat and wouldnt touch his new XBOX 360 .... finally after much coaching from my husband, be managed to grunt a bit! Then off to stocking from santa! girls again, carefully explored what was inside, while asshole sat there and wouldn't even look, later while I was making breakfast, he dumped it out and shoved it all back in...

It took all my strength to wrap SS!16 presents!!!!

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Ok, so last night were (dh & I) are wrapping the kids presents my BD7 is asleep, BD14 is spending the night with a friend, and we tell SS16 to hang in room till' wer'e done. You can imagine how well that goes, First trip out of his room , DH doesn't see, the next one he does- he tells him- Hey were wrapping here, yr so possed to stay in yr room! He pops off with "what, is it a crime to go to the bathroom?" I say, well, it is yr second time since we started a few min ago??

so, today he wont go to school....

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OK my friends, it's after 8am here, my daughters have left for school(private christian school that my SS16 got kicked out of) and im heading to work. SS16 is still in his room, in bed, apparently not going to school.. AGAIN.. keep in mind he is flunking out! He just grunts at me when I ask him is he is planning on going. Im not sure what pisses me off more, the fact he can be so disrespectfull, or continue to skip with absolutely no consequences from his dad or school. And of course the ungratefull terd will be able to go hang with his buddies...

I love my husband but....

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HELP!! I'm so tired of my step sons attitude, and the fact my husband does not seem to care about the fact his son is allowed to hold our home under this grip of tension, dear daddy wont even set any boundries for him, but holds my daughters 7 & 14 to extreem standards. My poor friends just cant understand. Im holding out hope my SS will move out, he's flunking all grades in school, rebeling, on anti depressants and anxiety drugs, NOTHING IS WORKING!