What a relief! i did leave my dh and my ss16 at home and went 5hrs away to a cozy condo with my parents. dh said he cant come because he cant get the time off work, but i know ts because he cant make ss come or behave! I wish he could have come with us. it makes me sad he doesnt get to have a break from his son. i miss him, and its hard that i need to defend his actions to my parents. they love me, and wish that things were different . It also makes me realize how much the stress affects me & my 2 daughters. hmm wish things were a bit easier..