My head hurts!!
so, for those who have read a bit you wont be surprized at the latest...
My dh decided he also needs some help coping with his son, so off the the local mental health office.. 1st. they wanted to talk to him about ss16 "mark' on his wrist, and let him know the proper procedure of he tries to hurt himself with a greater attempt. He claims it was from playing around with his buddies.. ya right.
So after my ss16 is done with his meeting his dr. come in also and then the 3 of them ramble on with all their mumbo-jumbo therapy language, and my dh( who is a CADC1 counselor) fills their heads with a bunch of crap about how he is leveling out, bla bla bla.. I stare at the pretty violets, look at pictures, wondering if these trained professionals can see through this load of shit!!
In the mean time my daughter, who is a freshman wants me to meet her new "friend"- she has never dated before, and im only up for the group dating thing, not alone one-on -one time . Meet him ,cute kid, looks at me directly, answers all of my questions, meet his mom, etc.. seems like a ok thing. Mention this to my DH and his exact words are
"HELL NO, IF YOU LET HER DATE, WERE DIVORCING" really?? I mean I cant ask SS16 for a towel from his room to do laundry, and he gets the ultimate decission for my daughter. the next night, i lay in bed crying, he yells at me about all the reasons why im being stupid, my bd daughter is stupid and he doesn't want to ever hear about anything she does from here on out if this is what I do.
and I still cry. thank god i leave for vacation tomorrow- he said he cant get the time off- even though his pay stub had 25hrs of vacation time- I know it's because he cant make SS16 go or even behave if he did.. how sad it that?