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Submitted by GSF300 on Tue, 10/08/2019 - 8:52am

Hi guys...

My SO and I have had on/off arguments about money & the awkward situation with his family. After an argument or a disagreement, my SO "punishes" me. My SO's excuse for not doing anything nice for me is because of our arguments and he doesn't argue with me so they aren't his fault. I pick all of the fights...money, family issues, step kid issues etc. Which funny enough the issues stem from his side of things. Not mine, by no means am i perfect, but I manage my money well, my family is good to him and there is no drama.

Would therapy help?

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Submitted by GSF300 on Thu, 02/14/2019 - 2:15pm

Hi all-

 Things have been quiet for a week or so now. Its been nice, but occasionally I get that huge knot in my stomach and panic/aniexty comes over me like somethings going to happen again. It feels like a PTSD episode. And I get myself all worked up and I bring up all the things I worry about to my SO and I get an eye roll.

A Monday chuckle...ugh.

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Submitted by GSF300 on Mon, 02/04/2019 - 8:43am

Happy Monday-

Little laugh-- if you read my other posts my SO's  Ex was living with his parents.....yeah well heres the good news and the bad news.

Good news- She moved out.

Bad news- She moved directly behind his parents, not miles people FEET. Freaking feet away.

YAY. Like I'm not already struggling with finding my place in this relationship as it is. She wont go away- at all.

Weird.

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Submitted by GSF300 on Mon, 10/22/2018 - 2:07pm

So last night about 9pm my phone rings...its BM. First thought is BF has his phone on silent, she couldnt reach him and called me. I answered she doesnt give me a second to say I'll grab BF and  she goes into this whole sitation. ( my other post BM is currently living with BF's parents). SD's grandfather was taking his meds and SD2 took one of his pills. Accidents happen, I get it...but 3 adults in the house and not one person was paying attention? She handled it well called the pediatrician and then posion control.