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The cops refused to do anything

Dh tried to enforce visitation this weekend and his kids refused to answer the door or their phones. So dh texted bm he would be calling the police as he has 50/50 custody.

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Dhs kids refusing to visit

SO dh let bm and his kids know I will be coming around and staying with dh and them on the weekends while we try to mend our family.

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Our marriage counselor got it right

I got to thinking yesterday and decided to broach the subject with our marriage counselor and I sent her an email.

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Can the kids refuse?

DH and I have been doing great. We are seeing each other every day and spending the night at each others house although we aren't having "the sex". I don't want to risk getting pregnant again.

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My next step?

I met with my therapist last night and we got to talking Laughing out loud about what I should be focusing on and goal orientated towards now.

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My ride or die

I am feeling so much better. My meds have kicked in and I don't have a foggy head anymore. My therapist has seen an improvement and mentioned it last night.

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Dh ended us?

I will admit I am not seeing things clearly. It's like I am in a fog right now. I need some help understanding what happened at switch off last night.

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Counseling was a diaster

We had our counseling session last night. I took your advice and I mentioned that I was having jealous feelings over the tutor.

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Would you be concerned?

Dh and I are living apart but dating. We have 50/50 of our 4th month old and he has 50/50 on opposite weeks of his other kids.

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Things are wonderful

I must say that things are going great. I am on antidepressants, dh and I see a counselor and I see a counselor on my own. My little one is getting so big and doing more.