Can the kids refuse?
DH and I have been doing great. We are seeing each other every day and spending the night at each others house although we aren't having "the sex". I don't want to risk getting pregnant again. I had ppd with my first and this time I completely lost it and myself when dd was born. I believe the reason I let him have joint custody of our newborn was because I was scared of becoming overwhelmed and harming her. I don't worry about that now and I feel fantastic! Dh gets the big snip done on the 19th. We have a 3 month wait after that and he gets a test to be sure he is in the clear. I'm counting down the days to be honest..... We are talking about moving in together again and dh said that his kids have threatened to move in with their mom full time if we live together. He is positive that at least one of them will follow through. I understand his concern and his worries but I am much better now and they have seen me and seen that I am no longer the crazy lady I was. My vote is to let them go and hopefully they will come back. He can take the ones who refuse to visit to dinners and still see them. I haven't brought this up to him yet. We have a marriage counseling meeting tonight and I was thinking of proposing this to him. Do you think it's a good idea or a bad one? His kids would be welcome in our home if they decide to come.