So BM text DH last night, basically demanding to see SS before we leave for New York (in 2 days). The only reason she even remembers we are going, or that it is time for us to go is because some families from our team are already there and posting pics on FB. She can see them. So DH tells her he needs an address to serve her, that we have a court date.

So, we have done our part in letting her know. She flipped her lid. Said she will take "drastic measures" to make sure SS doesn't go to New York unless we let her see him before we go. Ummm. I don't think so.

She doesn't realize that there is a court date in 2 weeks. Sheriff has "attempted" to serve her at her last know address 3 times. (we knew she didn't live there, but don't know where else to send anything).

She text multiple times, DH only responded with "How is Rehab going".

BM's dad let her stay with him for 3 days. She was "trying" to get in to a sober living house in his town. When he was helping her move her stuff in to his garage for storage, he apparently set a box down too carelessly, and she lost her shit. And took off. Apparently slept in her car that night somewhere near our house (her dad lives an hour away). My guess is the park up the street. I know she has slept in her car there a few times. I am also certain she got loaded while she was gone and won't get in to the sober house now because she won't be able to pee clean.

So, kids are home today. It's summer break. Not a peep from BM this weekend. She has turned to harassing her parents about helping her see SS now. Of course they all refuse.

I get a text from my oldest a few minutes ago "Where is SS?".

What do you mean???

"I mean, I can't find him".